Which gender is most likely to cheat on their lover?

[Bartun]

Willing, yes. Capable, no. it's far easier and more common for woman to cheat simply because they can literally walk into any bar and say, "WHO WANTS TO FUCK ME?!" And not much else has to be said. She gonna get dick.

Men, dont have it thst easy. We gotta either be handsome, rich or very persuasive

That said, this is only for unmarried men and women.

Married men cheat more, statistically speaking.

Well, if a woman really wants to cheat her partner with literally whoever she finds then yes, but most women are not willing to do that, most women cheat only with men they find "better" than their current partner unless she is cheating for revenge.

As for men, we are in a difficult position, but men with money, status, and good lucks can get with any woman just as easily as a woman can get with any man. For men with average looks and status as yours truly, however, it is difficult, but if you manage to get a girlfriend, chances are you will probably get hookups too.

 

[TheEldritchGod]

Define "Cheat". Are men more likely to have sex with someone else when in a committed relationship? Yes.
Are women more likely to make sure they have a "back up" in the advent the current relationship goes sour, thus preparing to cheat? Yes.

 

[CupcakeNinja]

See, this is where you're wrong. All you've gotta be is funny. Confident and funny would be a plus but overall, just funny.

be funny all ya want pal, aint gonna help when you got a face not even your mother could love. Being funny DOES help tho. There'd definitely women willing to overlook appearance and other traits if you can make them laugh. How many of them are actually willing to go into serious relationships with people who only got "funny" to put on their resumes, though, that i'd like to know.

Define "Cheat". Are men more likely to have sex with someone else when in a committed relationship? Yes.
Are women more likely to make sure they have a "back up" in the advent the current relationship goes sour, thus preparing to cheat? Yes.

Well if the criminal justice system is any indication, intent and action are two entirely different things.
Aint no one gonna do anything if your ex goes to prison and says, "when i get out imma murder you and your entire family".
They'll get involved AFTER the guy breaks in and tries to make good on his word, but not after.

See, same here.

Now, is it a breach of trust? Certainly. I wouldn't define it as "cheating," however. I mean, you can all call it that if you want. Its up to you, i guess. we've all got our "head canon" so to speak. But i don think the Oxford dictionary would agree, if you catch my drift.

 

[RepresentingCaution]

Women. The cucks will let them go away with that. Also women are more possessive, so they won't let their man go off.

I mean . . . my husband CAN have other partners if he wants them, but he's too busy playing video games to meet new people, so I have boyfriends, but I'm not seeing them in-person right now due to the pandemic.

 

[Deleted member 1244]

That said, this is only for unmarried men and women.

Married men cheat more, statistically speaking.

Ummm actually... if we are just talking statistically. Briefly gone thru a few papers on it, (gotta love anthro)...

Unmarried couples double the amount of cheating compared to married couples, but men persistently show a higher percentage than women, like 8 to 10 per cent, but I will almost say they are very close, considering we are looking at 60 to 70 per cent of all unmarried people have done or have considered cheating.

 

[LynaForge]

How many of them are actually willing to go into serious relationships with people who only got "funny" to put on their resumes, though, that i'd like to know.

Dude, MORE than we'd ever admit. I'd marry you in secret and give you some kids. Hell, I ain't gotta send out any Xmas cards and advertise it.

And sure as hell I won't let a man know this is an option. But I know my kryptonite. ?

 

[CupcakeNinja]

I'd marry you in secret and give you some kids.

is that a proposal?

Ummm actually... if we are just talking statistically. Briefly gone thru a few papers on it, (gotta love anthro)...

Unmarried couples double the amount of cheating compared to married couples, but men persistently show a higher percentage than women, like 8 to 10 per cent, but I will almost say they are very close, considering we are looking at 60 to 70 per cent of all unmarried people have done or have considered cheating.

i dunno man. TBH im on the fence on whether to even believe studies pertaining to this topic. I don't really trust either gender to be honest on whether they cheated or not, but especially not women.

Well, that's just an opinion formed in recent years tho. The advent of instahoes and TikThots is to blame

 

[Ilikewaterkusa]

I mean . . . my husband CAN have other partners if he wants them, but he's too busy playing video games to meet new people, so I have boyfriends, but I'm not seeing them in-person right now due to the pandemic.

lol.

is that a proposal?

i dunno man. TBH im on the fence on whether to even believe studies pertaining to this topic. I don't really trust either gender to be honest on whether they cheated or not, but especially not women.

Well, that's just an opinion formed in recent years tho. The advent of instahoes and TikThots is to blame

These two are not really the root cause, this began like in the 50s-70s with materialist propagandizing to the youth turning degenerate and spoiled (See Marilyn Monroe and similar), followed by the sexual revolution, the remove of the church from the institution of marriage, divorce restrictions loosening up (No fault divorce, no waiting periods for divorcing).

 

[ConansWitchBaby]

The hoe gender.

 

[Varstark]

"Multiple votes are allowed."

 

[Katsuya]

Are you serious?

yeah

Kinda. Just curious what people think.

 

[Lloyd]

Women by far

 

[SternenklarenRitter]

If it comes to cheating the both sides are close to equal, with cultural norms being the determining factor from region to region. But when it comes to any sort of breakup with or without cheating, there is minor (not enough to draw any conclusions yet) evidence supporting that men are more likely to leave a relationship before they have kids while ladies are more likely after.
Men's hormones while in a relationship tend to gradually and slightly increase their horniness and frustration, leading them to leave stagnant relationships behind. This behavior is instinctive, helping men to look elsewhere on the offhand chance their partner is poorly fertile. There is a reversal in this pattern after their child is born, and men frequently start needing a little more sleep and having anxiety when away from home. Their instincts switch over from "spread your seed" to "protect the home".
Ladies in contrast, tend to become a bit more concerned with security and safety after their first child. Bold personalities and exiting activities that they previously found attractive and engaging may suddenly seem obnoxious and overstimulating. They may no longer be able to keep up with, or even feel neglected by the types of people they have always loved and respected. Keep in mind that while these patterns were found by statisticians, they are minor effects, with something like 75% having no noticeable change, 15% following the trend, and 10% going against it. Moreover, there are very few published surveys of this type, none are longitudinal, they are all Eurocentric, and they mostly focused on "middle class" responders. There may be opposing trends in other regions with different climates and/or cultural values, or among those with income near or below their regional poverty line.