I think the problem here is YOU.

Maybe step away from YouTube and the grifters flooding you with hate. There’s nothing wrong; the only issue here is you. Just buy the game and enjoy it. The developers know what’s best for you.
Jokes aside, it’s still too early to definitively call Avowed woke, but there are plenty of red flags.
Pronouns are a trivial issue I can tolerate as long as they aren’t shoved down our throats, like in Veilguard. What really bothers me are the overly saturated colors, everything looks too vibrant, which is often a marker for targeting kids or man-children.
Another unmistakable marker is the uglification of women. There’s not a single feminine-looking woman in sight, no matter how hard you look. Instead, they’re all more muscular than me, while most of the men are feminized or sexualized with pecs on full display (not that I mind that specifically, but I can’t stand the double standard).
The art direction feels uninspired, and the gameplay, based on what we've seen so far, looks like a mix of Concord and Skyrim. It’s not promising... it all seems very janky and undercooked.
It’s a shame because Obsidian has been a great developer. New Vegas and KOTOR 2 are milestones in gaming history. But, much like BioWare, nowadays, all that remains is the name.