[Yandere Vs Thugdere]... pick your poison

[Dark_Phoenix_Zaetyk]

Between the two deres which one is more dangerous?,some may argue it 50/50 but you have a high chance of dying choosing either

 

[Crim-Chan]

Heh?
Never heard of thugdere before...

 

[Hans.Trondheim]

Imma pick the thugdere coz yanderes irl aren't cute.

 

[Dark_Phoenix_Zaetyk]

Think of revy from black lagoon but more extreme

Heh?
Never heard of thugdere before...

Imma pick the thugdere coz yanderes irl aren't cute.

So you choose pain whelp...that dangerous

 

[TroubleFait]

The abstract idea of a yandere is arousing and exciting, but imagining my loved ones threatened by a violent yandere does not spark joy. I'm forced to pick the thugdere.

 

[Dark_Phoenix_Zaetyk]

The abstract idea of a yandere is arousing and exciting, but imagining my loved ones threatened by a violent yandere does not spark joy. I'm forced to pick the thugdere.

Same.... yandere is a lost cannon that might blow off in your head

 

[Hans.Trondheim]

Think of revy from black lagoon but more extreme


So you choose pain whelp...that dangerous

Heh, sure, that's painful...but at least, you die quick. And you can avoid them thugderes once you see they are not in a good mood.

Yandies are walking landmines. You don't know when you stepped on the trigger, and you also wouldn't know when they would do drastic actions that can make the misunderstanding much worse.

I mean, I can talk like this because I experienced it first hand, and it was one of my students, which made it even worse.

 

[Iamnotabot]

Yandere, there was literally no other option

 

[TroubleFait]

I mean, I can talk like this because I experienced it first hand, and it was one of my students, which made it even worse.

I'm morbidly curious...

 

[RepresentingWrath]

I pick gangstadere.

 

[Hans.Trondheim]

I'm morbidly curious...

I'm a teacher, see? Public high school, in the Philippines. This happened sometime around 2016 (or is it 2017?).

See, I'm one of those teachers who leaned on the side of 'popular' because I simply wanted to have a fun 'workday' with my students. I'd crack jokes, do some flip like an action star to get their attention, and listen to their problems whenever they need a friend (I also give them advice).

Now, I got two students who were unusually close to me. At the time, I ignored the signs, because I'm a teacher, and I look like an NTR villain. I'd always make fun of my fat figure. These girls would approach me every time they have the opportunity, giving gifts (plush toys, flowers, letters). Do take note, I receive items like these often, especially during Teachers' Month (September-October), so I ignored any romantic meanings to it. And I'm a teacher, again, and we can't get into relationships with students (by rule and by ethics).

Then, one time, one of the girls finally confessed to me. The other girl learned of the confession and she also did the same. I told them thanks, but the reality doesn't allow romantic relationships between a teacher and his/her students. I thought she (the second girl) understood.

After that, I began to notice she was slowly controlling me, blackmailing me (and threatening the other girl) that she'd hurt herself if she saw me talking to other girls, including my co-teachers and other students. It even got worse to a point where she dragged me into a secluded room to cry about her jealousy.

Oh yeah, just to protect myself, I told everything to my guidance counselor, who made the effort to talk to her.

And then, one time...just when I thought everything was settled, I received a message from her with nude images. She was a freaking minor, god damn it, and even if she isn't, I still respect my profession and my students. I quickly contacted our guidance because of it, and she left school sometime later.

So yeah, I was once a fan of yandies. After that, I can't help but remember that weird, creepy episode I went through.

 

[TroubleFait]

Mist have been hard to deal with. The unpredictability, the fact you might not be in danger per se, but it's still menacing.

 

[HelloHound]

a painless and flavorless poison

 

[Prince_Azmiran_Myrian]

What if they are both at the same time?

 

[Seaspecter]

There are ways to deal with both kinds...

 

[Deleted member 84247]

I pick gangstadere.

Word to the mothafuckin G, homie.

 

[Ellieporter]

Catchthesehandere

 

[Hans.Trondheim]

Mist have been hard to deal with. The unpredictability, the fact you might not be in danger per se, but it's still menacing.

Ah, the tension is real. I mean, with the trend nowadays, it is easy for a guy like me to be accused of something I won't do.

Hence, I've been careful. But then again, thanks to my NTR-face, I scare peeps away.

I pick gangstadere.

Is it alright if I pick the righthandere?

 

[RepresentingDesire]

I honestly wonder why people just don't desire a simple deredere or how it's called, under consent I could definetly understand why some would want such a grilfriend/boyfriend, but on the other hand it could be entertaining for some but definitely an absolute minority of people that like yandere belong to such a group. But still why not wish for a sweet relationship without any hardship? But I guess such simple love wouldn't be enough satisfying in most minds, that isn't even something against people with mental disorders.
Reminds me of that real life yandere in Japan and the dude that was so chill about it and if I remember correctly even wanted to give it a second try. I honestly wonder why more people simp over the yandere when such a person could be a option.

 

[Hans.Trondheim]

I honestly wonder why people just don't desire a simple deredere or how it's called, under consent I could definetly understand why some would want such a grilfriend/boyfriend, but on the other hand it could be entertaining for some but definitely an absolute minority of people that like yandere belong to such a group. But still why not wish for a sweet relationship without any hardship? But I guess such simple love wouldn't be enough satisfying in most minds, that isn't even something against people with mental disorders.
Reminds me of that real life yandere in Japan and the dude that was so chill about it and if I remember correctly even wanted to give it a second try. I honestly wonder why more people simp over the yandere when such a person could be a option.

Deredere is vanilla, hence they find her boring.

Yandere, on the other hand, will do anything for you...which a lot of peeps who have introverted tendencies find desirable coz they will come to you, instead of you coming to them.

That's fictional yandie.

Real life yandies are similar, but creepier.