If you ask Who, then you are likely going to wind up targeting someone, you might even start some kind of witch hunt.
If you ask When or Where, you are limiting yourself to a certain event, widen your prospects!
If you ask how, then some neurodivergent person is going to give you a long, complicated answer which will make you sad because you know that it will likely never happen and then it gets added to your ever-growing of things that you have failed to accomplish and no one wants that.
If you ask Which, then you are forcing people to make a choice. They hate that and will blame you for disrupting their little lives.
If you ask wherefore, then people will (correctly) think you are a pretentious douche.
But if you ask Why, then since the world is a mass of Chaos and confusion there are no real answers, so you can get hit with a simple platitude and continue on with your day having done nothing to increase your lot in life but feel like you have accomplished something anyway. "Why" is the clicker game of inquiry.