Things you've learned Through writing

D.S.Nate

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What's the most surprising thing you've learned about yourself through your writing?

It's an old one by this point but for me, I'd say my one is how despite my dyslexia. I stuck and committed with writing of all things lol

Nowadays I guess I have a poetic way of writing things? It's the one thing that has been constant with me as I've improved.

Sooo yeah...
 

ArcadiaBlade

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I have autism, ADHD and OCD.

One makes me stare blankly like I'm lagging in RL, one can't let me focus on writing and the last one makes me itch till I perfect my writing skills.
 

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Most surprising? Not sure. If I ever share my attempt at a "steamy romance" story (essentially NC-17, not X but maybe a LITTLE past R rated) t then either "that I had the nerve to try to write and then share it, despite it sucking" or "that I could actually write that kind of stuff."
But that's an "if"...
 
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Writing an Essay about rocks, and how useful it is to natural life. For my science assignment.
 

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Writing consistently, even if not a lot, is better than writing a lot once every now and then. (I started with 200 words a day and after 4 months of writing daily got to 800 words a day, eventually getting to 1200 a day.

Extensive editing is more of a consequence of wanting to write better rather than a requirement of the craft.(this only applies to authors who see it more as a hobby)

There are thin lines between inspiration and plagiarism that have to be dodged like bullets every time you write something "new."

Having a thesaurus, dictionary, and slang dictionary in physical form is a huge time saver when writing. (Not because it isn't faster to search on the internet but because it is easier to get distracted on the internet. Also, urban dictionary is the Wikipedia of slang dictionaries. Did you know you can find slang dictionaries for many cultures, languages, and era's for sale online? I got a Victorian one.)

Narcissistic authors prevent good stories from being better. (This is very specific to people who think their story is perfect without flaws.)

Figuring out whether you are better at dialogue writing, descriptive writing, or scene writing will always determine what will need the most work during editing. (Practicing the ones you aren't good at while you use the ones you are good at will make things a lot easier.)

The imagination is often best utilized while alone but the best inspiration comes from real interactions with nature, people, animals, architecture, stories, etc.. if you have writer's block, try taking a break to see what the world around you can offer, good and bad. Something interesting will tend to come out of it.

Writing genre's that very few people like can be very disheartening.
 
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I learned that my mental fortitude is higher than I thought. I also learned that people think I'm smarter than I really am. I get commenters expecting some 4d chess somehow.
 

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I learned how all the stories I write about orbit the same core concept: shaking yourself free of how other see or perceive you, and reclamation.

Poems? Short stories? Novels? D&D characters? My indie JRPG?

All boil down to the same struggle, the same lesson.

I am a one-trick pony, apparently.
 

D.S.Nate

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I learned how all the stories I write about orbit the same core concept: shaking yourself free of how other see or perceive you, and reclamation.

Poems? Short stories? Novels? D&D characters? My indie JRPG?

All boil down to the same struggle, the same lesson.

I am a one-trick pony, apparently.
Ayy man, through repetition comes perfection XD
 

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The more I write the more I realize that I don't have it in me to be a writer, not yet at least, I lack both confidence and patience, I'd write a scene in a minute and waste hours doubting it, what if this what if that? after editing over and over, somehow the scene loses its essence, or maybe after reading it for a billion times I just lose sight of what made it appeal to me in the first place
I feel like a hamster stuck in a loop, but I kinda enjoy the workout
 

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The more I write the more I realize that I don't have it in me to be a writer, not yet at least, I lack both confidence and patience, I'd write a scene in a minute and waste hours doubting it, what if this what if that? after editing over and over, somehow the scene loses its essence, or maybe after reading it for a billion times I just lose sight of what made it appeal to me in the first place
No that sounds EXACTLY like a writer. Exactly.
I feel like a hamster stuck in a loop, but I kinda enjoy the workout
That too.
 

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I'd say I'm better at waxing poetic and writing symbolism better than I thought (based on 2 people telling me so and nobody saying different), but Im not sure if that was me or the 'artists painful spirit' not sure what else to call it.
 

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The more I write the more I realize that I don't have it in me to be a writer, not yet at least, I lack both confidence and patience, I'd write a scene in a minute and waste hours doubting it, what if this what if that? after editing over and over, somehow the scene loses its essence, or maybe after reading it for a billion times I just lose sight of what made it appeal to me in the first place
I feel like a hamster stuck in a loop, but I kinda enjoy the workout
Exactly how I feel, but I felt that for a couple years before I really started sharing my story. If it's a story with Truth in it, it's harder to share.
Phone died and lost a paragraph, but any artist of stone, wood, paper or words, will crush themselves with doubts, but that's proof of the care they give their art. I wrote a small autobiography and doubted it every second. It was my own life and I doubted it, but do you doubt me writing Truth with that much pain? I don't want a life with the pain I wrote, but I wont forsake Truth.
 
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