The yaoi problem

[2021]

No problem, more a question, why do most people who become teenagers mostly teen-girls without knowing it become super obsessed with it.

Like no joke, most of the people I know love it. This question also extend’s to, why do teen-boys hate on kids toys and love hornieness.


Because lega *smacks lips* are top tier. You know what forget the past questions, send me some mother-ducken Lego builds images.

 

[CarburetorThompson]

This question also extend’s to, why do teen-boys hate on kids toys and love hornieness.

Never met a teenage boy who doesn’t like lego. Not sure what you mean.

 

[2021]

Never met a teenage boy who doesn’t like lego. Not sure what you mean.

Dunno, all the ones I’ve met hate it. My parent still have the ones I had as kid. Not give them away to some rando. Legos and hot-wheels are the god-given objects

 

[Cipiteca396]

Kids usually don't like it when people treat them like kids. "Act your age!" Is usually something that gets thrown around. Hating childish things is an attempt to make themselves feel and seem older.

Increased sexuality comes from the same thing. Boys are supposed to be horny, so they act horny. Hormones exacerbate this greatly.

My familiarity with yaoi is low. I never met anyone (irl) who was interested in it, either. So I can't really see the 'problem'.

 

[Irl_Rat]

Most teen girls DON'T become obsessed with it. What you're experiencing is likely a very skewed sample. They're commonly referred to as Fujoshi though there is a male counterpart term. I would consider this obsession similar to being like an incel, it's rare but you'll see a lot if you're on certain corners of the internet or places irl. And I say this as someone who has interacted with such girls in real life, to the point where they asked if whether my friend or I was the bottom since we held hands a lot.

In regards to teen boys hating on childish things and becoming horny, I've noticed that it's less common in current American culture. Not the horny part, we're all degenerates still. However, it's now considered "based" to just enjoy things regardless of what social norms might dictate such as perceived maturity. Like very recently, me and friend had a blast going to the lego store though we're too damn broke to really buy anything.

 

[RepresentingCaution]

I was never into yaoi. When I was a teenager, I came across a lot of Seto Kaiba yaoi. Nothing wrong with it, but I preferred hetero stories where I could imagine myself as the protagonist . . . and then I wrote one.

 

[CheertheDead]

I don't think a lot of girls are fujoshi. The amount I saw were very small like 1% of the population and this is coming from me who is a preacher and I have connection with large group of fujoshi in order to corrupt them more.

 

[Nahrenne]

No problem, more a question, why do most people who become teenagers mostly teen-girls without knowing it become super obsessed with it.

Like no joke, most of the people I know love it. This question also extend’s to, why do teen-boys hate on kids toys and love hornieness.


Because lega *smacks lips* are top tier. You know what forget the past questions, send me some mother-ducken Lego builds images.

Probably a similar reason as to why it seems like a lot of guys prefer GL over GB. It's two good-looking characters of the gender you are attracted to doing delicious things together. Or just being intimate and loving.
In my own experience, it's because shoujo just felt so...shallow, same-y and bland.
As for being super obsessed, I mean, I think there are many different groups of people who become super obsessed with something - it's not indicative of everyone who enjoys that thing, though. Like, I'm not super obsessed with BL but I do enjoy it a lot. I find great pleasure in reading and have grown in my tastes along with it.
I mean, I won't force someone to accept a BL ship, much like I wouldn't do that for any kind of ship. Then again, I've never been the type to write fanfic for anything so...
Also, this doesn't mean that I only pay attention to BL. I enjoy other genres, too. BL just happens to work well with a lot of other genres I like so it's the best of both worlds for me.
>w<

As for super obsessed...could you give examples of what exactly you mean?
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[SakeVision]

You think teenage girls are fujoshi? Wait until you discover the trope of tired adult office worker fujoshi who lives just to read yaoi porn late night.