Motivating One's Self

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As authors, there would always come a time when--even if we really love what we do--we'll get lazy and procrastinate. It's perfectly normal, being an author myself. However, what if you're already done with being lazy and wanted to write your story, but procrastination just won't leave you alone?

Well, these are my experiences on dealing with such situations. Oh and please do take note that this is just a set of suggestions, and not a sure way to fix the problem. I mean, there are tons of ways how to pull one's self from procrastinating. I'm just sharing what I usually do.

Tip 1: I always set my goals. As a writer, I don't write without any end in sight. Before I go down writing my volumes, and even starting a story, I already knew its ending. This is so that, whenever I'm visited by Mr. Laziness or Procrastination, I could always go back to where I left off. Another benefit of this is that, you won't be easily get swayed by the rants of your readers, because hey, you're the author, and you know how to end your story.

Tip 2: If I can't do it in one sitting, I'd write in short bursts. This is also one way to get out of procrastination. A hundred words a day is good enough to be productive for your story. At least, it has progress. Writing the first scenes is always the most difficult part in starting a story.

Tip 3: If you don't like what you have just written, take a break. Yeah, I know it's kind of contrary to the topic, but yes, it's a viable solution. I mean, when we write our story's first few scenes, don't we always think that it sucks? Or it seems bad for the narrative as a whole? The thing is, there are times that our first drafts turn out to be a good idea once we took a break from pushing ourselves and return to what we have been writing. Think of it as your brain 'restarting' after being stressed out from pushing yourself.

Tip 4: If you can't start writing on a computer/phone/tablet, try writing in a notebook. Or try changing your environment. The idea is to have something different, just for you start writing. Think of yourself as a 'car' that needs a key to start.

Tip 5: Remove all distractions. If you focus yourself on what you set yourself to do, you'll soon find yourself enjoying it. For me, whenever I write, I always go on a 'social media hiatus'. I avoid games, Discord, Facebook, Youtube, Wikipedia and any other website, so that I could focus on my work.

Tip 6: Know yourself. Yep, though it's kind of off-topic, knowing one's self is good, if you aim to motivate yourself. Know your weaknesses, what things are you easily distracted with? How do you motivate yourself? As for me, for example, I know I'm a spontaneous person. I only write whenever I feel like it; so I always exploit that 'weakness' of mine. I plan my stories beforehand, and when that 'feeling of writing' comes, I write everyday until I reached the end of the volume that I planned ahead, or Mr. Procrastination comes back for a visit.

Tip 7: Congratulate yourself. Yeah, once you're done with your work, it's not a bad habit to let yourself indulge again in other things you like to do. It's kind of connected to tip #1, see? If you reached your goals (tip #1), then reward yourself (#7) so that you're motivated to do the next story you had in mind. And, yes, taking pride in what you've accomplished is good, just be careful not to let it get into your head. A person who always talks of his past hasn't accomplished much, or as that saying goes.

So there. I hope these tips helped in getting you out of procrastination. If others have tips or suggestions, feel free to add it here.
 

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become an empty shell that only slaves on their work. puny humans have weak souls.
 

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become an empty shell that only slaves on their work. puny humans have weak souls.
I agree with that. Human souls taste bland these days. Must be because of their weakness.
 

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Stop acting like take a break is a dirty phrase. Burn out is real. Creative energy has to be refilled and rest. it can't just run 2,000 words a day indefinitely. Because I swear, the people who consistently write like that are mostly putting out trash.
 

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Stop acting like take a break is a dirty phrase. Burn out is real. Creative energy has to be refilled and rest. it can't just run 2,000 words a day indefinitely. Because I swear, the people who consistently write like that are mostly putting out trash.
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Stop acting like take a break is a dirty phrase. Burn out is real. Creative energy has to be refilled and rest. it can't just run 2,000 words a day indefinitely. Because I swear, the people who consistently write like that are mostly putting out trash.

as someone who reads chinese novels on daily basis, i can attest to this.
 

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as someone who reads chinese novels on daily basis, i can attest to this.
How the fuck do they even do it? It's like having 20 arcs per novel that are all different but simultaneously feels like cookie-cutter bullshit. Actually, HOW do you even bullshit so many words? I know Chinese counts their words by characters but holy fuck, it's insane. Literally 2k word chapters of NOTHING. Literally NOTHING happening. What even is there to say? It's like I read an empty page but LOUDER.
 
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How the fuck do they even do it? It's like having 20 arcs per novel that are all different but simultaneously feels like cookie-cutter bullshit. Actually, HOW do you even bullshit so many words? I know Chinese counts their words by characters but holy fuck, it's insane. Literally 2k word chapters of NOTHING. Literally NOTHING happening. What even is there to say? It's like I read an empty page but LOUDER.
Well, as someone who got sent with an offer in a Chinese site, I'd say it's like that because of authors struggling to reach the word quota per day.

So yeah, it's like writing 2k words of literal nothing. And that's why I didn't sign the contract. I'm a spontaneous writer, and I'd just kill myself if I force out words daily.
 
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Stop acting like take a break is a dirty phrase. Burn out is real. Creative energy has to be refilled and rest. it can't just run 2,000 words a day indefinitely. Because I swear, the people who consistently write like that are mostly putting out trash.
Err...are you pertaining to my post?
 

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do mind numbingly tedious and boring work. That always gets creativity flowing.
 

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While it's kind of difficult, I'd say I agree to this. Sometimes, the mundane could trigger the extraordinary.
well i just said that cause i always start daydreaming about my story when i am supposed to be studying. I have made lot of plot points and stuff just by daydreaming.
 
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well i just said that cause i always start daydreaming about my story when i am supposed to be studying. I have made lot of plot points and stuff just by daydreaming.
Ah, most of the authors I know, including myself, fixes plot inconsistencies and create new ones simply by daydreaming.

Like, whenever I drive around, or walk around the neighborhood. Sometimes, the idea comes in while doing ordinary stuff.
 

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Well, I realize you said you were giving what works for you. That's great that it does. To give more input, I will go through this and give opinions about what I see. I can tell from the list that you are likely a plotter. As such, for people with other writing styles, it wouldn't work as well. Let's see if we can identify which ones are universal and which are specific to plotters, and maybe suggest some other options.
Tip 1: I always set my goals. As a writer, I don't write without any end in sight. Before I go down writing my volumes, and even starting a story, I already knew its ending. This is so that, whenever I'm visited by Mr. Laziness or Procrastination, I could always go back to where I left off. Another benefit of this is that, you won't be easily get swayed by the rants of your readers, because hey, you're the author, and you know how to end your story.

Of all the tips, this is definitely the absolute most plotter centric item on the list. Fortunately though, I am a pantser and I actually do have the perfect equivalent tip that will work for pantsers in place of this.

Keep a schedule, and include a word-count goal. I make mine around 1000 words a day minimum, this can be accumulated into a single 2000 word chapter every 2 days.

Tip 2: If I can't do it in one sitting, I'd write in short bursts. This is also one way to get out of procrastination. A hundred words a day is good enough to be productive for your story. At least, it has progress. Writing the first scenes is always the most difficult part in starting a story.

Well... this kinda directly contradicts what I just wrote above. I suppose this is another factor of the difference between plotters and pantsers though. I imagine if you are plotting then it must take a considerable amount more effort to write the same number of words, thus 100 words becomes more of a reasonable goal. If you are a pantser though, you ought to at least go for around 500 words per day.

Tip 3: If you don't like what you have just written, take a break. Yeah, I know it's kind of contrary to the topic, but yes, it's a viable solution. I mean, when we write our story's first few scenes, don't we always think that it sucks? Or it seems bad for the narrative as a whole? The thing is, there are times that our first drafts turn out to be a good idea once we took a break from pushing ourselves and return to what we have been writing. Think of it as your brain 'restarting' after being stressed out from pushing yourself.

Well, I do agree that writing while your brain is tired is a bad idea. I also agree that editing is very good. If possible, you should always edit your work. However, when you don't like your work, that's when you should especially walk away from it for a bit and then come back later to edit it.

Tip 4: If you can't start writing on a computer/phone/tablet, try writing in a notebook. Or try changing your environment. The idea is to have something different, just for you start writing. Think of yourself as a 'car' that needs a key to start.

I get what you're saying, but you could have definitely phrased this one better. Basically, your mind works best if you establish the right conditions for you. Those conditions tend to be different for different people. Figure out what yours are.

Tip 5: Remove all distractions. If you focus yourself on what you set yourself to do, you'll soon find yourself enjoying it. For me, whenever I write, I always go on a 'social media hiatus'. I avoid games, Discord, Facebook, Youtube, Wikipedia and any other website, so that I could focus on my work.

Wait, what? Who can have social media open while writing?

I think your examples of distractions here are rather extreme, but I guess there might be someone crazy enough to think they can have a distraction that extreme going while they are also trying to write. I am absolutely flabberghasted at the very concept that someone would even need to say such an obvious thing, but I have been surprised by the stupidity of humans before.

A much more common distraction is music. I have found out something interesting once when I decided to try writing while at a family gathering once though. It turns out, fiction is almost impossible to write while surrounded by IRL distractions. However, you can still write non-fiction with only a minor drop in writing ability even in a noisy room full of people talking. (so long as none of them are trying to talk to you.)

Tip 6: Know yourself. Yep, though it's kind of off-topic, knowing one's self is good, if you aim to motivate yourself. Know your weaknesses, what things are you easily distracted with? How do you motivate yourself? As for me, for example, I know I'm a spontaneous person. I only write whenever I feel like it; so I always exploit that 'weakness' of mine. I plan my stories beforehand, and when that 'feeling of writing' comes, I write everyday until I reached the end of the volume that I planned ahead, or Mr. Procrastination comes back for a visit.

Err... Ok, time for me to be harsh. This tip is no good. Well, Ok, the set-up is fine. Knowing yourself is important. However, the part where you talk about how much of a spontaneous person you are is something that you really shouldn't be implying is an Ok thing. In fact, you should really be working on that for yourself.

It sounds like you are managing to find a good way to compensate for this rather serious weakness, but you shouldn't go thinking this is enough as a solution.

The thing you should probably add to this is to have some kind of deadlines, and be strict with yourself. Come up with some consequences for if you don't make your deadlines, or reward yourself when you do.

You write best when you treat your writing like a job and learn how to just write even when you don't really want to. If you just wait until "the muse takes you," then you will never get any work done. In fact, the farther you get into your writing, the longer the gaps between inspiration will become. Eventually, you wind up dropping the project all together. Trust me on this, I speak from experience.

Tip 7: Congratulate yourself. Yeah, once you're done with your work, it's not a bad habit to let yourself indulge again in other things you like to do. It's kind of connected to tip #1, see? If you reached your goals (tip #1), then reward yourself (#7) so that you're motivated to do the next story you had in mind. And, yes, taking pride in what you've accomplished is good, just be careful not to let it get into your head. A person who always talks of his past hasn't accomplished much, or as that saying goes.

Rather than this, this actually links back to the tip I just gave in response to your #6. Have deadlines, and reward yourself when you keep them. Maybe go out to get some food from one of your favorite resteraunts or something. Or, I don't know, have a chocolate truffle you got from a store. The degree of reward you give yourself should be proportionate to the degree of the accomplishment.
 
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@Jemini your post is long, but here's my simple answer to that.

"Oh and please do take note that this is just a set of suggestions, and not a sure way to fix the problem. I mean, there are tons of ways how to pull one's self from procrastinating. I'm just sharing what I usually do."

So yeah, it's good to analyze my post. But please, treat it as what I indicated above. Chill.
 

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@Jemini your post is long, but here's my simple answer to that.

"Oh and please do take note that this is just a set of suggestions, and not a sure way to fix the problem. I mean, there are tons of ways how to pull one's self from procrastinating. I'm just sharing what I usually do."

So yeah, it's good to analyze my post. But please, treat it as what I indicated above. Chill.
My motivation was really just to make the tips accessible to more people. Exactly as I said they were.

Not sure what you are inferring from the words I wrote, but based on the fact you're telling me to "chill" implies you think I got somehow agitated from your list of tips. No, I'm really just giving some tips of my own and trying to help more people in the process. Some of the people for whom your tips may not really work.

I did mean it with the impulsive writing thing though. That's not a good habit for someone who wants to be a writer to get into. Period. This is not just a matter of opinion. If you want to write and keep writing, you need to have the ability to force yourself to write even when you are not in the ideal head-space.
 
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My motivation was really just to make the tips accessible to more people. Exactly as I said they were.

Not sure what you are inferring from the words I wrote, but based on the fact you're telling me to "chill" implies you think I got somehow agitated from your list of tips. No, I'm really just giving some tips of my own and trying to help more people in the process. Some of the people for whom your tips may not really work.

I did mean it with the impulsive writing thing though. That's not a good habit for someone who wants to be a writer to get into. Period. This is not just a matter of opinion. If you want to write and keep writing, you need to have the ability to force yourself to write even when you are not in the ideal head-space.
Ah, my apologies for misunderstanding your reply. And yes, I do agree with what you said: "If you want to write and keep writing, you need to have the ability to force yourself to write even when you are not in the ideal head-space."
 

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As authors, there would always come a time when--even if we really love what we do--we'll get lazy and procrastinate. It's perfectly normal, being an author myself. However, what if you're already done with being lazy and wanted to write your story, but procrastination just won't leave you alone?

Well, these are my experiences on dealing with such situations. Oh and please do take note that this is just a set of suggestions, and not a sure way to fix the problem. I mean, there are tons of ways how to pull one's self from procrastinating. I'm just sharing what I usually do.

Tip 1: I always set my goals. As a writer, I don't write without any end in sight. Before I go down writing my volumes, and even starting a story, I already knew its ending. This is so that, whenever I'm visited by Mr. Laziness or Procrastination, I could always go back to where I left off. Another benefit of this is that, you won't be easily get swayed by the rants of your readers, because hey, you're the author, and you know how to end your story.

Tip 2: If I can't do it in one sitting, I'd write in short bursts. This is also one way to get out of procrastination. A hundred words a day is good enough to be productive for your story. At least, it has progress. Writing the first scenes is always the most difficult part in starting a story.

Tip 3: If you don't like what you have just written, take a break. Yeah, I know it's kind of contrary to the topic, but yes, it's a viable solution. I mean, when we write our story's first few scenes, don't we always think that it sucks? Or it seems bad for the narrative as a whole? The thing is, there are times that our first drafts turn out to be a good idea once we took a break from pushing ourselves and return to what we have been writing. Think of it as your brain 'restarting' after being stressed out from pushing yourself.

Tip 4: If you can't start writing on a computer/phone/tablet, try writing in a notebook. Or try changing your environment. The idea is to have something different, just for you start writing. Think of yourself as a 'car' that needs a key to start.

Tip 5: Remove all distractions. If you focus yourself on what you set yourself to do, you'll soon find yourself enjoying it. For me, whenever I write, I always go on a 'social media hiatus'. I avoid games, Discord, Facebook, Youtube, Wikipedia and any other website, so that I could focus on my work.

Tip 6: Know yourself. Yep, though it's kind of off-topic, knowing one's self is good, if you aim to motivate yourself. Know your weaknesses, what things are you easily distracted with? How do you motivate yourself? As for me, for example, I know I'm a spontaneous person. I only write whenever I feel like it; so I always exploit that 'weakness' of mine. I plan my stories beforehand, and when that 'feeling of writing' comes, I write everyday until I reached the end of the volume that I planned ahead, or Mr. Procrastination comes back for a visit.

Tip 7: Congratulate yourself. Yeah, once you're done with your work, it's not a bad habit to let yourself indulge again in other things you like to do. It's kind of connected to tip #1, see? If you reached your goals (tip #1), then reward yourself (#7) so that you're motivated to do the next story you had in mind. And, yes, taking pride in what you've accomplished is good, just be careful not to let it get into your head. A person who always talks of his past hasn't accomplished much, or as that saying goes.

So there. I hope these tips helped in getting you out of procrastination. If others have tips or suggestions, feel free to add it here.
Thank you for these great pieces of advice.
 

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My best method for jotting down words and not being over critical is this: write in two documents. One is the "official" first draft where you'll put it all down and post. The second word doc is for your looser thoughts, steam of consciousness writing.
Having the second window open fools my dumb lizard brain into just writing; I no longer need to edit every line as I write it, or obsess over dialogue, etc.
This is how I do about 2k words a day. No think, just write.
Then go back and edit.
 

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My best method for jotting down words and not being over critical is this: write in two documents. One is the "official" first draft where you'll put it all down and post. The second word doc is for your looser thoughts, steam of consciousness writing.
Having the second window open fools my dumb lizard brain into just writing; I no longer need to edit every line as I write it, or obsess over dialogue, etc.
This is how I do about 2k words a day. No think, just write.
Then go back and edit.
Pretty good idea
 
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