Life, I guess

[YourLocal_loli]

I’m trapped in a cycle of working at school all day then after school due to the amount of work set but I also lose my free time to engineering projects that we do on the weekend to make more money due to my fear that while I’m away something bad will happen because I’m not there to take up the slack. Any advice?

 

[RepresentingCaution]

Don't have a baby.
You have to hold them all day, or else they scream.

 

[YourLocal_loli]

Don't have a baby.
You have to hold them all day, or else they scream.

Wanted or not wanted, that is the question

 

[CupcakeNinja]

Don't have a baby.
You have to hold them all day, or else they scream.

Let them cry themselves to sleep. It's what I do. If they fussy, fuck em they can cry till they tire themselves out then. I think of it as exercise for their lungs

I’m trapped in a cycle of working at school all day then after school due to the amount of work set but I also lose my free time to engineering projects that we do on the weekend to make more money due to my fear that while I’m away something bad will happen because I’m not there to take up the slack. Any advice?

Stop worrying about that shit then. If bad things are bound to happen they will happen whether you are there or not, and you cant keep coddling people. Just take a day to relax. Go for a walk. Prepare some lube and pray that God has mercy on your meat, because you wont.

 

[RepresentingCaution]

Wanted or not wanted, that is the question

I wanted mine, but I expected him to be a lot quieter. My parents told me that I was a quiet baby. My husband was a quiet baby.

Let them cry themselves to sleep. It's what I do. If they fussy, fuck em they can cry till they tire themselves out then. I think of it as exercise for their lungs

Cosleeping and Biological Imperatives: Why Human Babies Do Not and Should Not Sleep Alone

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[Deleted member 45782]

I’m trapped in a cycle of working at school all day then after school due to the amount of work set but I also lose my free time to engineering projects that we do on the weekend to make more money due to my fear that while I’m away something bad will happen because I’m not there to take up the slack. Any advice?

Fear is the biggest thing there is. Is it bc of a project at school that you're afraid to step away from? You need to take a break, doesn't have be long but like what Cupcake Ninja says, maybe a short walk will help. Not sure how to give advice on this situation, but realize that eventually school projects will end, so you won't be trapped in this cycle.

 

[ArcadiaBlade]

Live a simple life and do not persue riches. sure making money is the dream of all but not everything has to do with money. You can achieve happiness without it just have enough to satisfy yourself for a long while.

 

[Tessa_Renalds]

Having worked 5 jobs at one point in my life, I can fully understand being trapped in that cycle of work, school, eat, sleep, and repeat.
It’s hard, but sometimes you have to give yourself a break. Take small breaks within your day: take a walk, read a book, or do whatever you enjoy doing. If one consistently pushes themselves like they’re machines, they’ll inevitably break. You gotta look out for your mental health as much as one would their physical health.
we are only human after all.