Life at a Japanese school AMA

Irl_Rat

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I think making lunches the night before would be best.
This is pretty viable if you have the right equipment and works really well on certain dishes. Cooking rice or porridge in a rice cooker over night works really well since it'll change to warm mode after a while, the method can also be used to make broth. Certain dishes like simmered meat, claypot fish being an example, can last a solid week in the fridge, not the freezer, after cooking and even tastes better after a few days of sitting in the fridge.

The only things that actually need to be prepared on the day of would be stuff like fresh vegetables. Of course you could get away with making the whole packed lunch while cooking breakfast during the morning of. It just takes some experience and fast hands.

If you're into batter fried food, I think you could do a light fry to cook but not enough to make it crunch, cool it, then freeze. Then you can use an air fryer, oven, or regular to do another frying when you need it. I recommend air fryers to drain excess oil.

Hope this information helps someone. Unfortunately my family cooks mostly Asian food so I can't provide much help with specialty dishes from other cultures.
 

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No problem, but Ai-chan made an error there. The school term ends in March, not May. Ai-chan was sleepy and didn't realize Ai-chan typed May.
Ah, i see. okay, whew, was confused for a sec.
 

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schools start at 8:30AM and ends a little later after 3PM
Japanese schools typically have 2 breaks. A short break, study a bit more and then lunch break. Back in Ai-chan's day, there were 2 classes between the first break and the lunch break.
That's basically how things were/are in high school here in Aus (at least when i went through which was 11-12 years ago) just we started about 8:50am. what a coincidence.
 

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This is pretty viable if you have the right equipment and works really well on certain dishes. Cooking rice or porridge in a rice cooker over night works really well since it'll change to warm mode after a while, the method can also be used to make broth. Certain dishes like simmered meat, claypot fish being an example, can last a solid week in the fridge, not the freezer, after cooking and even tastes better after a few days of sitting in the fridge.

The only things that actually need to be prepared on the day of would be stuff like fresh vegetables. Of course you could get away with making the whole packed lunch while cooking breakfast during the morning of. It just takes some experience and fast hands.

If you're into batter fried food, I think you could do a light fry to cook but not enough to make it crunch, cool it, then freeze. Then you can use an air fryer, oven, or regular to do another frying when you need it. I recommend air fryers to drain excess oil.

Hope this information helps someone. Unfortunately my family cooks mostly Asian food so I can't provide much help with specialty dishes from other cultures.
That sounds awesome, but most schools don't offer students a microwave or anything to reheat lunches. I could in theory drop off a hot lunch for him since the elementary school is so close, but doing that every day would annoy the school staff and possibly set him apart from the other kids. Maybe I could drop off a hot lunch once a month or something when he forgets to take his lunch to school.
 

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That sounds awesome, but most schools don't offer students a microwave or anything to reheat lunches. I could in theory drop off a hot lunch for him since the elementary school is so close, but doing that every day would annoy the school staff and possibly set him apart from the other kids. Maybe I could drop off a hot lunch once a month or something when he forgets to take his lunch to school.
I should have been more clear since the way I make my packed lunches doesn't require reheating. It actually requires a cold pack instead, so the hot food doesn't overheat if it's in a bag. A typical lunch would be a container of steamed rice and mincemeat omelet with another container holding peeled and sliced cucumbers as well as a carton of juice or milk. Sandwiches are even easier.

I think I've only made hot lunches for my parents since they can reheat stuff at their workplace. Normally it's a separated noodle soup, broth in one container and the other stuff in another. Heat the broth at work then pour it over and you have delicious food that your coworkers will try to get a bite of.
 

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If I have another kid, I'll still be breastfeeding it by the time my son starts kindergarten, so my body will be making meals for one kid, and I'll have to make meals for everyone else another time. I also have large breasts, so I need to use a C-hold for the first six months at least, so that occupies one hand for about 6 hours a day.

Since taking care of my gestational diabetes took a lot of work, I've decided that I'm not going to go through another pregnancy until my son is at least three years old, completely potty trained, and generally more independent when it comes to entertaining himself, comforting himself, and things like that. Gestational diabetes means I have to take a walk after every meal, prick my finger in the morning plus an hour after every meal, and shoot myself with insulin before bed. Since I have to respond to my son on a moment's notice and he doesn't understand "Give Mom a few minutes" yet, we're definitely not ready for another kid.

I think making lunches the night before would be best. We (potential new baby and I) will be sleeping in as long as we can get away with, depending on how quickly we can accomplish the morning routine for my son, or if I can get my husband to handle all of that. I might be able to talk my parents into that because they live immediately next door, and my mom should be retired by the time my son starts kindergarten. The good thing is that the elementary school is a one-minute walk from our home.

I might even be able to talk my dad into making lunches for my son, now that I think about it, or we could do it together and make it a family activity.
Oh, that seems rough... Ganbatte! >.<
 

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Ironic considering this is a site of stories.

How would you consider the subjects to differ compared to say the U.S.A.? Were there a lot of subjects that they don't have in the U.S.A. or was everything generally the same?
Not sure how it would differ in America as Ai-chan has never studied in America. But based on the movies, Japanese schools don't put much emphasis on foreign languages as America is. We do get to learn English, Chinese and German, but that is dependent on the availability of teachers and the quality is not always good. So those who want to learn English would move to Malaysia, which is a former British colony that is much cheaper than moving to America or Britain.

are japanese bathrooms also a place of smoking, bullying and doing drugs?
That's mostly stereotype. Japanese people do not enjoy spending time in the toilet. Japanese girls don't even like doing makeup in the toilet. And if you smoke in the toilet, the smell stays for a very long time. Of course, you can bring air purifier, but it would be suspicious if you bring air purifier everytime you go to the toilet. But yes, some people do get bullied in the toilet. However, Ai-chan has never personally come across this.

Drug use among Japanese students is very low but for smoking, they usually go behind school buildings to do that. Basically open places that can't be seen easily.

I've always wondered what the Student Council was even supposed to do, so thanks for sharing that!

On that note, what are class reps supposed to do?

Neither student council nor class rep exist in my country, so I have no idea what their function is supposed to be.
Class reps are by default members of the student council. They're lower level staff of the student council. They basically assist the teacher in managing the class, lead the class greetings (stand up, bow, greet, stand up, bow, thank you), ensure the class duties are performed, ensure the record books are filled in properly, liaise with the student council on any matters pertaining to their class, lead the class during school festivals and take care of the students in class.

While we have an Ai-Chan ama thread, though it is unrelated, I am curious why does Ai-Chan comment in third person?
It has nothing to do with being cute or adorable. Japanese people hate first-person pronouns. Even boys would say, "Takanashi-san won't do it." meaning, "This person will not do it." Japanese person would rather say, "Won't do it." than "I won't do it." Omitting the first-person pronoun is common in regular conversation.
Wait a moment, as uncommon as it be, what are people with natural red or blond hair supposed to do when these colours are against the rules?
Unless you can prove that it's your natural hair colour, you will always get scolded for it. Long ago, Japanese teachers would just cut your colourful hair to teach you a lesson, but nowadays, they just give you verbal assaults unless you've proven that your hair colour is natural for you. That's why some halfs colour their hair voluntarily.

In anime, it seems like they always bring their lunch from home. Can you buy lunch at school in Japan, or are you out of luck if you forget to bring your own? If you can buy lunch at school, what is it like? I got inspired by this video, and remembering how bad American school lunches are makes me want to pack my son's lunch so he gets better nutrition than that, but then again, if I have another kid, I don't think I'll have the energy to do that for him:

Strictly speaking, there are no cafeteria in Japanese schools. What we got are something like food shops where you can buy bread, onigiri or packed lunches. Most people however, bring their own lunch, either made at home or bought from convenience shops along the way to school. Because usually, there are only one food shop in the whole school and everyone jumps at that food shop. By the time you reach it, you're out of the stuff you want.

However, this only applies mostly to high schools. In elementary and middle school, public Japanese schools are required by law to provide school lunches, called kyushoku. Unless if you study in private middle schools, in which case, you do need to bring lunch to middle school. So if you have a cute sister in middle school making bento for you, she would do it just for you, not for her.

The girl in black t-shirt during lunch is likely the class representative as they're usually the last in line during school lunches since they have to make sure that everyone has lunch.

Can't you just cook it for them both in one go? It shouldn't be much more work than cooking for just one...
About lunches, most people prepare their lunches the night before from leftovers, then out it in the fridge and only take it out in the morning.

Older animes make it seem like High School is optional and mandatory education stops at Middle School. Is that real?

If it is, what job opportunities would someone who didn’t go to high school have? I mean specifically, could you have a trade skill (electrician/carpenter/etc) or would you basically only have very low level jobs to look forward to?
Yes, high school is optional. Once you graduate middle school, you can choose not to go to high school. Many celebrities dropped out of high school for various reasons. Companies also don't care about your high school, only your university degree.

Unfortunately, those who drop out of high school won't be able to work in professional field. But there are still plenty of jobs that won't ask for high school graduation certificate. Unlike other developed countries, the Japanese are not squeamish about dirty jobs. A high school dropout can work as electrician or other trade jobs, provided that they have the proper certificates.

For electrician, you need to go to a trade/vocational school that provides that qualification. For carpenters, the only qualification you need is that you're good with your job. For celebrities, they usually drop out of formal high school due to the difficulty of going to school while working. Plus, some schools don't even allow part-time jobs.
 

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Class reps are by default members of the student council. They're lower level staff of the student council. They basically assist the teacher in managing the class, lead the class greetings (stand up, bow, greet, stand up, bow, thank you), ensure the class duties are performed, ensure the record books are filled in properly, liaise with the student council on any matters pertaining to their class, lead the class during school festivals and take care of the students in class.
Oh! This makes plenty of sense!
So if you have a cute sister in middle school making bento for you, she would do it just for you, not for her.
This makes those scenes in anime look even cuter than they already are~
About lunches, most people prepare their lunches the night before from leftovers, then out it in the fridge and only take it out in the morning.
Oh, right... Does cold food taste good? Like... I can understand eating salad cold, but everything else I always eat hot, so... I just can't imagine eating cold rice, for example.

But well, if you're bringing the food from home, then it should be cold, so... I'm now wondering about that~
 

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Oh, right... Does cold food taste good? Like... I can understand eating salad cold, but everything else I always eat hot, so... I just can't imagine eating cold rice, for example.
Food normally just becomes room temperature after being out for a while, regardless if it was hot or cold before. The previous state it was in normally affects texture more than temperature after 4+ hours. Unless the outside temperature is either very hot or cold.

And room temperature or cooled rice tastes fine, not as good as right out the cooker, but definitely fine. On a side note, boiled chicken tastes astronomically better straight out the fridge compared to right after cooking.
 

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Oh! This makes plenty of sense!

This makes those scenes in anime look even cuter than they already are~

Oh, right... Does cold food taste good? Like... I can understand eating salad cold, but everything else I always eat hot, so... I just can't imagine eating cold rice, for example.

But well, if you're bringing the food from home, then it should be cold, so... I'm now wondering about that~
Yes, it's normally cold, which is better. Because you'd be keeping that lunch in your bag for like 4 hours. If it's hot, you know it's gonna go bad by the time you eat it. By the time you eat it, it's already warm enough that the cold of the fridge won't be there anymore.
 

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so that cliche trope is actually a thing? huh, the more you know.
Yes, that cliche trope is actually a thing. Doesn't happen all that often though. After all, it's not like you can trick the teachers. If there is a spot in school that is isolated, the teachers will most likely know about such spots as well. Smokers also have the additional hurdle of random school spot checks.

Ai-chan thinks that we should talk about Tommy Lee Jones.


The scene with the blackboard eraser happens all the time. It had nothing to do with bully or malice. We did it for shits and giggles in middle school. Just a prank, bruh!

The throwing of chalk at sleeping students was also real, not sure if it still happens now.

The raising of forcefield for those who arrive late is not real, but you do get questioned and your name recorded when you arrive late. They won't bar you from entering the school, though.

Love confessions happen all the time, but normally if it happens right in front of a teacher, they'd tell you to go back to class or try to hinder you in some way. After all, romantic relationship is technically not allowed at school. So back then, we'd tell our friends if we want to confess to someone and our friends would help distract the teacher if the teacher were to be on their way to our location. Nowadays, teachers probably won't get involved unless it's the disciplinary teacher. The rules are still there, but nobody really enforces it.
 
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were there hot teachers in the school like in those harem mangas
Yes. Being a school teacher is a favourite job for hot girls looking for a husband. Of course, teaching ability factors in more than appearances. But school teachers have to appear presentable at all times, and young teachers straight out of university are very common.
 

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Older animes make it seem like High School is optional and mandatory education stops at Middle School. Is that real?
Yes. This is true. Compulsory education stops at middle school and you can either go on to high school or go straight to work.
If it is, what job opportunities would someone who didn’t go to high school have? I mean specifically, could you have a trade skill (electrician/carpenter/etc) or would you basically only have very low level jobs to look forward to?
Yes, and yes. It's going to be a vocation. There's also the option of going to a vocational school where you learn a trade. You would start at a low menial job and work your way up. It's not an ideal. But it's doable if your family owns a business.
Oh, right... Does cold food taste good? Like... I can understand eating salad cold, but everything else I always eat hot, so... I just can't imagine eating cold rice, for example.
Someone once said that upon visiting Japan for the first time, you feel like you're being hazed. You have to sleep on the floor, eat cold food, & drink hot liquor.
It has nothing to do with being cute or adorable. Japanese people hate first-person pronouns. Even boys would say, "Takanashi-san won't do it." meaning, "This person will not do it." Japanese person would rather say, "Won't do it." than "I won't do it." Omitting the first-person pronoun is common in regular conversation.
Strictly speaking, isn't referring to oneself in the third person meant for children?
 
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Strictly speaking, isn't referring to oneself in the third person meant for children?
No, it's a personal preference. Like people who prefer walking than driving. There are plenty of adult Japanese who prefer either speaking in third person or not using pronouns at all. Of course, you don't normally do this with people you're not close to, as it's considered slightly inappropriate. And the Japanese people are all about being appropriate and accomodating. So you will never see this being done in formal situations or when they're speaking to people who they are maintaining a distance from.

On the other end of the spectrum, you can also get coworkers who use keigo with you at all times. It doesn't necessarily mean that they respect you, or that they resent you. It simply means they're not comfortable with you at the time of speech and they're keeping you at arms length. This can last for years. You could have two coworkers speaking in tameguchi, and when you suddenly interrupt, they switch to keigo almost seamlessly.
 
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How are non-Asian foreign exchange students treated in school?

Also how does Japan's foreign exchange work? Do the students stay with host families?
 

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How are non-Asian foreign exchange students treated in school?

Also how does Japan's foreign exchange work? Do the students stay with host families?
In some cases, it depends on how hot you are. In most cases, you're treated like a curiosity. It's not too exaggerating to say that you'd be treated like a zoo animal. People will want to look at you, talk to you, and stalk you, but most students would just keep a distance from you. The most likely person who would be your first friend would be the class representative or assistant. The homeroom teacher will always be there to help you if you need it, and the teacher will always ask if you're having problem understanding Japanese or if you're being harassed by other students. Other than that though, life goes on.

White foreign exchange students are usually handled like a porcelain doll. If you do something wrong, you'd be mostly forgiven as you're just a foreigner and it's assumed that you do not know the local culture. However, due to this wariness, it'll also be hard for you to initiate communication with others outside your own class, especially if your Japanese sucks. In this case, you can find additional friends through clubs and circles.

The students under foreign exchange do stay with host families, but that's as far as Ai-chan can tell you. Ai-chan doesn't know the details as we never got foreign exchange students in Ai-chan's class. There was one guy from Germany in one of the upper classes back when Ai-chan studied there, but we stayed away from him. Not because we were afraid of him, but because he was not only an upperclassmen, he was also in another class.

Going out of our way to communicate with him would be considered a nuisance. That's why there's the colliding at the corner trope. If you collide at the corner, you can use that as a point of contact. You can either initiate communication right away or come back later to apologize or make amends.
 

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Food normally just becomes room temperature after being out for a while, regardless if it was hot or cold before. The previous state it was in normally affects texture more than temperature after 4+ hours. Unless the outside temperature is either very hot or cold.

And room temperature or cooled rice tastes fine, not as good as right out the cooker, but definitely fine. On a side note, boiled chicken tastes astronomically better straight out the fridge compared to right after cooking.
Yes, it's normally cold, which is better. Because you'd be keeping that lunch in your bag for like 4 hours. If it's hot, you know it's gonna go bad by the time you eat it. By the time you eat it, it's already warm enough that the cold of the fridge won't be there anymore.
Thanks for replying! Pretty nice to know those things~
Someone once said that upon visiting Japan for the first time, you feel like you're being hazed. You have to sleep on the floor, eat cold food, & drink hot liquor.
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Immortal sama! Another question, please!
Are school clubs a big thing out there? (I don't mean the sports clubs, as they exist in one form or another everywhere).
There is plenty of "clubs" depicted in anime and manga, but are they actually common? Are there designated club rooms? Club activities?
Or is everything like that restricted to personal time and space, away from school?
As it happens normally: you and your friends get together at someone's house and do your things away from prying eyes.

This lowly one is grateful for your time.
 
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