> If Lolita wants to date tall mascular build guy is it a crime
Note: "Lolita" the book and subsequent works are about child sexual abuse, not height.
If you're 17-18, I'd avoid dating people over 24 or so. (Or younger than 15.)
Rather, if a 30 year old man is pursuing an 18 year old woman, that's a red flag, as he's probably interested in (from his point of view) very young women who don't have much life experience and he can manipulate the f*** out of them. And that he's subconsciously looking for a person who can't stand up to him.. It's a foundation for an abusive relationship.
It'd be like an 18 year old man chasing a 13 year old girl. Or a 16 year old male chasing an 11 year old.
A rule of thumb for the elder is "don't date less than ½ age + 6". Or, if you're younger, "don't date older than 2 x (your age - 6)".
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Regarding height - absolute non issue. If someone gives you shit over that, you'll know they're a shallow and flawed person.