I judge people who . . .

[greyblob]

That depends but yes. After all, judging someone is to put them on a scale like meat for sale.

Fun fact is that after a ton of self reflection and no resolution to fix my own mistakes, I no longer have the capabilities to judge people.

I just hate every single one that I meet, especially the one I always see in the mirror.

change that horrendous picture. and hating yourself is cringe and unhealthy. you should stop.

We can make positive judgements about people, too. I have a favorable opinion of people who breastfeed their children for two years or longer:

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well if you mean having an opinion about someone, then yes, that's true for almost anyone I meet. though, I don't necessarily act according to it until I'm somewhat sure it's correct. for example if someone starts talking shit about someone we know behind their back, it's an instant drop

 

[2021]

You can’t judge a year, you can only hate it!

 

[Viator]

I judge anyone who complains about having "No Money" for something important, and asking to borrow some from me, while making a completely unnecessary purchase.

Life tip

Always watch how people spend their money before even considering giving them a dime. If you have any doubts, don't give. Also, if you are going to decide to give, give freely without expectation of being paid back.

And if you don't get paid back, when you were told they would pay you back anyway, never give that person money again. Even if you continue a friendly relationship with them. They have shown they put themselves first, before you or the integrity of their word.

It's not worth helping them out in the future with anything material. They will likely always need "help" and are likely really where they are because of bad spending habits.

 

[Psycholor]

I judge people who flip flop on issues based on who's talking or what the news says.

Be consistent, do your own research. ALL major media lies and sensationalizes; it's how they make money.

 

[BlackKnightX]

Here's a thread where we talk about reasons we judge people and why. To be clear, we're talking about choices or behaviors and not things that are beyond a person's control such as the circumstances of their birth or their physical traits.

I judge people who have more kids than they wanted because they used the pull out method or no contraception at all. I have one kid, and he is 100% wanted. I want another one, but not yet, so my husband and I are using condoms until we decide we're ready for more. After the second one, I plan to get my tubes tied. I see myself as a responsible person, and I don't like to associate with people who strike me as irresponsible.

I don’t judge people, or to be more accurate, I simply don’t care. Everyone has their own life and their own individuality; that’s what I like about people.

So, when someone act in their own ways, I just observe and learn—there’s my own opinion, of course, but I just keep it to myself or just tell them in a joking-manner or in a matter-of-fact tone instead of being critical and judgmental about it.

Though, even if I’m not judgmental doesn’t mean that I don’t have my own distaste for some people at all; for instance, the kind of people who doesn’t listen to others at all and only care about their own opinions. When you get into an argument with them, and they start to lose, they’ll just turn blind and deaf right at you.

When I meet this kind of people, if the matters discussed are important, then I’ll have to be forceful about it or try another persuasive methods. But if the matters discussed aren’t that important, and the other party aren’t someone close to me, then I’ll just simply ignore them and don’t waste my time further.

That’s about it. I don’t judge people, and it’s hard to find someone I truly dislike. But, if I ever find one, I’d become extremely dismissive.

 

[Deleted member 70223]

I judge Karens.

 

[2021]

I judge Karens.

I judge you for not judging Kens

 

[RepresentingCaution]

But for your statement, does that mean you negatively view those who only do so for a year or less?

That depends on more complex factors. Do they have a health condition that prevents them from breastfeeding? Do they have an employer who makes expressing milk at work extremely uncomfortable? Were they never exposed to the information that I have been exposed to? Pediatricians in the US say to breastfeed for one year or longer, and not everyone knows that the WHO says to breastfeed for two years or longer.

If the answer is that they don't do it out of choice, and they have been exposed to the same information I have been exposed to, then I look at them more negatively. A child's health is a huge priority, and to neglect that out of pure selfishness is not OK in my book. That being said, I think it would be very rare for someone to choose not to do it out of pure selfishness. If the parent's mental health is at stake, that's not really a choice. I feel sad about such circumstances, but I wouldn't look at them more negatively if I understood their full circumstances.

I judge people who resort to ad-homonym attacks or otherwise throw a fit when they are on the loosing end of an argument. Beyond the obvious point that it's a clear sign they really have lost, I find this kind of behavior really shitty.

I judge people on the loose end of an argument, too. They almost always lose.

 

[Discount_Blade]

I consider myself to be very judgmental against specific types of people and things. I'm no saint. No one is. I wouldn't want to be either. Sounds tortuous, and I don't mean just because they are dead. Everyone here is judgemental, even in ways they haven't admitted here and likely never will. Definitely in ways they don't even realize. We are not our most accurate judges of character. Very rarely is anyone correct about themselves, due to the simple fact that everyone sees the world from their own eyes, and no one else's, literally and virtually always figuratively.

I have my standards and my beliefs, and I follow through on them regardless of who is hurt because in the end, if you're willing to alter your perception based on just anyone's opposing opinions, you will become weak and shallow and in the end, fall for anything if it is sensationalized enough.

I draw a line in the sand and pick my side and stick to it. Not because I have to or need to, but because I agree with that faction and I will therefore support it until I find a reason to doubt it, or because it no longer suits me to stand with it.

In the end, however, I constantly read from all perspectives. This is how I attempt to stay educated and updated on information, varying interpretations, and new evidence, so I can do as best as I can to make sure I am standing alongside those whom I am in agreement with so I do not regret my stance later on.

We cannot escape being judgemental. We cannot escape having an opinion. We cannot escape being biased. To pretend otherwise is to be a liar. Even worse, it is to be a blind, and naive liar.

Just make sure you are prepared to stand brave when someone challenges your beliefs, and not shirk them just because you are afraid of hurting someone's feelings. You will hurt someone regardless of what you think, believe, and do. Just make sure you do it for a reason you can stomach and accept.

 

[Zirrboy]

I judge people who resort to ad-homonym attacks

"So with thin, blunt bodies and completely unhandy wielding from the design mirrored at the grip, how are bows supposed to be good melee weapons?"
"Nooo, I was talking about bowing! Nobody expects you to do it in a fight and the blunt force knocks people out like nothing!"
"Then what was that about versatility with ranged attacks before?"
"Ah, of course I mean cloth bows. They can be transported easily and inconspicuously in their tied form and used for strangulation and stone hurling if done apart!"



I judge people who "just want to be accepted" when their take is attacked, but preach about it being better than others as soon as the opportunity arises.

Nothing matters "nihilsm" is also pretty far up there. The only thing you're convincing me of is your misunderstanding of the philosophy.

And a whole assortment of things that I dislike about myself.
Thinking of your own opinion as absolute or pressing values on others, blindly overestimating your own skills, applying double standards, being aggressively judgemental, criticizing things and people because you can and never will be put on the spot to do better...

So yeah, quite a few things

 

[CarburetorThompson]

ngl I judge people who don‘t have their wind screen wipers at the same speed as mine when I’m driving in the rain.

 

[T.K._Paradox]

There are very few people personally that I would say look down upon, but here are a few people I am not particularly found of:

People that blindly follow every word someone says, just because they share similar opinions.

Needlessly nihilistic people.

People that make their plight to be someone else's fault. When in reality they are more than likely lazy as hell.

People that would sacrifice their own mother for social media points. You know the type.

Backstabers and backtalkers. If say something bad about you I am going to say it to your face, no need to be pointlessly nice towards someone I don't like.

Lastly, people that tell you shouldn't do something and then turn around and do it.

 

[Deleted member 70223]

I judge you for not judging Kens

I judge Kens too.

 

[RepresentingCaution]

I judge Kens too.

What about Kevins?

 

[SilvCrimBlac]

What about Kevins?

Who the hell are the Kevins????

That's...new to me.

 

[CarburetorThompson]

Who the hell are the Kevins????

That's...new to me.

They're sort of like the Karls

 

[Deleted member 22388]

I judge those that don't care of their pets hunger and health. Did they literally buy it for decoration and show of wealth when it has life? No love into it that someone did it for them to feed it. Might as well free them where they belong, lest no one bothers it and see their faces of sudden realisation of regret. Having no empathy and selfish over what the people given notes to them, I will punch their faces to break their immersion of dirty self-dignity.

 

[kiyanfan]

I quite dislike hypocrites, myself included ;

saying one thing then doing another, especially when its for their own convenience

i live with someone who complains about a messy house, then instead of cleaning, they not only make it everyone else's responsibility, but dump their own trash as they please

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impatient perfectionists (myself included) ;

I understand, you want to be efficient and have your high standards, but dont be rude about it. If you come with an attitude, you better be prepared to either work alone or have a stiff, unfriendly, forced cooperation.

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people who judge others superficially (myself included) ;

Maybe that person does dress that way or look that way, but at the end of the day what does it really matter? Everyone just gets hurt by that kind of energy.

im tired of meeting someone nice and unconsciously judging their appearance. i dont wanna think that way, and just appreciate their character instead

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I have more i think, but that would just end up as a rant.

long story short im irritated at myself and other unpleasant people, and desperately hold onto what self-awareness i have as a "redeeming" feature lol

 

[RepresentingCaution]

long story short im irritated at myself and other unpleasant people, and desperately hold onto what self-awareness i have as a "redeeming" feature lol

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates

 

[Deleted member 70223]

What about Kevins?

I judge Shaniquas as well.