How do you Focus?

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If your profession or study is completely different from your writings and takes up a good chunk of your day...how do you make room for writing so that it doesn't bleed into your other areas of life and so on? What is your writing routine?

Edit: Besides the time for writing, I think what I'm trying to ask is, how do you focus? Sometimes it feels like you're doing something when you feel you should be doing something else. Only to find when you do that something, it goes back to feeling you should be doing the other thing that you just switched from. And sometimes that leaves you with nothing done, at least not satisfactory.

I probably need to stop trying to swim in both directions and just pick one path to go already. Inadequate at both atm.
 
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If your profession or study is completely different from your writings and takes up a good chunk of your day...how do you make room for writing so that it doesn't bleed into your other areas of life and so on? What is your writing routine?


I probably need to stop trying to swim in both directions and just pick one path to go already. Inadequate at both atm.
I'm a practicing teacher, and being a teacher in my country meant that we're overworked. So whenever I got the time off during my 'writing days', I'd always have a notebook with me to write down the scenes and ideas that came to me while doing my work.

Also, I'm aware of my spontaneity, so I exploit that flaw of mine by planning ahead of my 'writing days'. My 'writing days' are the weeks I give myself to finish an entire volume/manuscript, as I know that the longer my story took time, the greater chances it won't end.

If you're just starting to work, allow yourself to 'settle down' with it before finding a moment to continue what you want to do.

You'll eventually find that time and schedule when you finally settled down.
 
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If you're just starting to work, allow yourself to 'settle down' with it before finding a moment to continue what you want to do.

You'll eventually find that time and schedule when you finally settled down.
Thanks for the advice.
 
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Thanks for the advice.
No probs! I'm speaking from my experience, see?

Back in 2013, when I was newly-hired, I couldn't and didn't produce any illustration or chapter, and that continued until 2019, when I was already six years into service. I was busy trying to adjust to my new work life in those 'missing' years.

In 2019, I decided to write 'The Saint Series' by then.
 
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No probs! I'm speaking from my experience, see?

Back in 2013, when I was newly-hired, I couldn't and didn't produce any illustration or chapter, and that continued until 2019, when I was already six years into service. I was busy trying to adjust to my new work life in those 'missing' years.

In 2019, I decided to write 'The Saint Series' by then.
Man, thats a pretty long time.

Thanks. Its hard to focus with indecisiveness at times. Will try focus more on stuff first.
 

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I just write because I'm bored and it only cost using the internet to upload my stuff. The only time I'm focus is when i'm interested enough to start writing the senario and would only stop when I get tired. I tend to lax around stuff all the time since RL tend to drain my strength. I mostly control my sanity by meditating as to not affect my writing.

The last time I wrote without controlling my sanity is when I started envoking the eldrich god's will to be summon upon the world which was kinda bad and had to develop schizophrenia just in case one sanity of mine goes insane.

Apart from all that, I'm just lazy at writing.
 

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(lol if you saw what I accidentally uploaded before this, sorry xD I'm on my phone and I clicked post before I was done ahaha anyhow...)

I have something that helped me with this!! Though it might be slightly different from what you're feeling, I used to not be able to write because I felt too tired/the act of creating just felt too much after a long day of doing something else (i.e. work). Coming home half-exhausted and sitting in front of the computer looking at a blank screen was just too burdensome to write.

What really got me able to write for real was when I began drafting/writing scenes I liked when I was on the bus/subway/public transportation. That helped me because it 1. was not burdensome at all because I had nothing else to do and didn't feel obliged to create something good, and 2. gave me a starting point so that I felt like I wasn't staring at a white sheet once I had the time to write. 3. Typing that back out onto the computer put me immediately into the mood for writing, and then I was able to focus.

Some people say you shouldn't write out the scenes you want to write for a piece first because then it'll make you not write the rest after you write that scene, but to me it was the opposite-- when I wrote then exactly as I wanted them when I first got the idea, it would serve as an example of what kind of writing I wanted for that story in particular (setting the tone) and motivate me to keep writing.

So.... yeah, tl:dr: write in burden-free situations, onto phone apps, onto napkins, even recording yourself saying it if you drive instead of taking public transportation. And when you actually reach the time you have to write, revisiting them and rewriting them can set you off so that you can dive right in and focus. :)
 

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If your profession or study is completely different from your writings and takes up a good chunk of your day...how do you make room for writing so that it doesn't bleed into your other areas of life and so on? What is your writing routine?

Edit: Besides the time for writing, I think what I'm trying to ask is, how do you focus? Sometimes it feels like you're doing something when you feel you should be doing something else. Only to find when you do that something, it goes back to feeling you should be doing the other thing that you just switched from. And sometimes that leaves you with nothing done, at least not satisfactory.

I probably need to stop trying to swim in both directions and just pick one path to go already. Inadequate at both atm.
Start going to the gym.

No, wait, don't go first, hear me out.

You go to the gym not just to acquire GAINS, but to acquire discipline.

Discipline is the key of the game.

Back then, I used to do track and field. That was up to when I was twelve. I simply adopted a mindset of discipline but I never knew where to apply it on. Then I started writing when I was fourteen, and I've applied discipline there ever since.

The idea is that in order for you to improve your lap time/your gains, you have to train at a specified time while pushing the envelope further. I used to be in lap races. I started off with average 4 minutes when I joined. By the time I graduated, I'm doing close to 2 minutes flat. I do this by forcing myself to practice at set times, and, though it's enforced by the school, it still counts. I never skip weekend practices and keep doing it anyway.

Now apply that mindset to writing. Your profession may hinder your time for writing, but you have to learn to use EVERY limited time you have and jam it into writing. Give yourself the morning. Wake up early. Write for an hour and go to school. Come back home. Shower. Finish your homework. Write. Dinner. Study. Write until it's bed time. In order to prevent burning out, laze out for the weekends and play some games. Or, if you're really for it, keep writing. The advantage is that writing is a mental strain. I have the gift from my parents that I'm a stubborn fucking man. I may not have the gift in the physical department but I can sit myself down for copious amounts of hours doing the same thing if I want to.

Force yourself into that mindset. Set a schedule and stick to it. Make sure your materials are close by at every moment. Notepad and pen? In the pocket. Google Docs? On the first home page on your phone. I even go as far as to set my note pages as my wallpaper so I can remind myself what to write. There was also this one time where I set an alarm to write, but that proved too stressful, as I'm ADHD enough to check the time every 5 minutes.

Adapt, improvise and commit. No time? Find time. There's time? Use time. Using time? Keep using time. The day you slack is the day you put your foot over the slippery slope. Soon your mind will adopt a pattern where the time will come and the neurons start firing. As an extra bonus, find a static place to write everyday. To me, it's the park bench. I go there every 9am - 11am and 5pm - 7pm to write. I bring nothing but my earphones and my bottle. Now with the pandemic? A mask. I sit there and write, sometimes until my mom calls me for dinner. I make sure I prepped everything for the next day. I shower before I go out so I can eat the moment I reach home. I save my Docs to the cloud every night so I won't have to worry about it the next day.

Now everytime I sit on the park bench, the ideas start coming, and I write like there's no tomorrow.

Your body works best like clockwork. Abuse that system. Commit yourself to a schedule and slowly improve your times within that schedule. I used to do 500 words every day. Now I do between 700 to 1000 per writing session. That's >1.4k every day. You'll be releasing 2k chapters every two days.

There's always different circumstances. If so, take that schedule to the next level. Whenever you take a shit, write. It need not commit to a time, but a location. Write there. On the school bus' commute? Write. In the cafeteria? Write. Hell, if you got time to grind in Genshin, you got time to write. Choose your commitment. I'm just telling you how to commit. It's your decision on WHAT to commit.

The most important part is to ADHERE to that schedule. Like I said, discipline. The first day you slack would be the first of many. Never compromise. Stick to the plan even when the world fails. Learn to keep your head in the clouds. Get used to the act of writing. If there's a chance, write. Waiting in a restaurant? Write. Meetup with a friend but said friend's late? Write. It won't be as productive, but an inch of progress is still progress. The word count is unlike the human body. It doesn't deflate. It always stacks; more the reason to keep writing.

Plan. Adapt. Commit. Discipline. The four great mantras for doing anything. Stick to it as stubborn as an ass. Don't stop. Never stop. Soon, you'll find yourself incapable of stopping.
 

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Well, I a college student.

I recently try to writing. In the past, I write as a way to relieve stress and entertainment. Most of them are self-insert fanfiction.
But, I tried to make a new one and post it on this website.

After a while, it kinda took my time than I expected. Since in the past, I write on my free day. When I posted on this website. I want to post my story daily. First, I write like in the past. write as many as I can. But, It was difficult when I doing while study too. So I do it differently.
Now, I just write in anytime I want. When I feel bored study. When I tired doing assignment. When I read another novel or read manga. Sometimes I wrote while watching Vtuber.
Sometimes I just write one sentence, sometimes several sentences. at most I wrote two whole paragraphs
Before I post it, I review it.

For now, that works for me.
Yeah, doing writing even just a little one-sentence than didn't write at all.
 

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I don't think I am worthy of saying this since I am on a hiatus, but
You really can't focus on that stuff if ideas keep coming at you. I take an hour off in evening to write a chapter or so. Every hour or so, I take a small break to just move my arms during which the rest, minor ideas flow.
 

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It's not really hard when your default procrastination method is daydreaming about self insert.

how to write.
step 1
try to study
step 2
fuck shit
step 3
BRAIN:engage screensaver fuck reality



now mind you this wont get you a iinteresting worthwhile story which anyone will read but....


writing isn't really my calling. fun and scientific method is which I am postponing.
whyyyy
wait why exactly am I postponing it.
 
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Start going to the gym.
Umm for me this is like-

How to write? Oh just do something much much harder, it's pretty easy!

No, wait, don't go first, hear me out.
Ok thank god! No need for that anymore.

On a more serious note, what you just said is something that helps with any activity that you want to spend time on. Great advice.
 

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Sometimes I get way too immersed into my writing session.?:sweating_profusely:
It gets to the point where everything around me ceases to exist.

And then there are times when I get way too distracted from my writing session.
It even gets to the point where I start re-reading my stories just to pass the time.?:blob_blank:

I hate it when either one happens, so I was like; What if I allowed both procrastination and work occur at the same time? MUAHAHAH!:blob_sir:
?(sidenote: this approach does not work)?

My solution for whenever I was stuck and unfocused I just jot down the things that were in my head onto another document or piece of paper, may it be about my writing session or not. Quite simply, cleaning up the clog in my flow thoughts.
 
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