Writing How do you appreciate your own work?

Eldoria

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The best validation comes from personal motivation. Readers can complain and leave like guests. But you, the author, the host, survive and continue writing your story. My question is, how do you appreciate your own work, regardless of whether others care about your fiction or not?


I've always wanted to have at least one book I could be proud of. This fiction is a dream I'm realising, whether anyone else cares or not (even my family doesn't know).
 
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When you woke up from a dream and thought: 'Holy crap this is going to be sick'
When you shit in the toilet and suddenly had an inspiration
When you read manga and watch anime you suddenly had this spark
When you read people's story you thought maybe I could try this
When you were fed up with work
When your income is running low
When life is just too stressful and you had to vent it out


I always like how Eldoria is posting threads like these. Your posts are quite a good place to vent.
 
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CinnaSloth

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The best validation comes from personal motivation. Readers can complain and leave like guests. But you, the author, the host, survive and continue writing your story. My question is, how do you appreciate your own work, regardless of whether others care about your fiction or not?



I disagree. The best validation comes from Pride; The absolute arrogance to keep moving forward despite what the world, society, friends, family, or what your own mind tells you, and the stubbornness to continue walking down that path. Self motivation might have told you that you can take that path, but it doesn't take you far. It's the discipline you push yourself through, and the routines you drive into your own body that keep you moving. Otherwise, everyone's new year resolutions would always come true. -which we all know, most do not.

My personal reason-
My point exactly. Headpat :blob_nom:

As for me,
Personally, I have no self motivation. I write because. :blob_frown:
 

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I agree with discipline. It's the best way to appreciate anything you do. I persisted even through sickness and continued to write. That's more impressive than something fleeting like motivation. The motivation can come and go, but the discipline to do it stays. No matter how I am feeling, the task will get done.

As for whether others care for my fiction, I do care about it to a large degree. I have changed what I've written, knowing that nobody would care about the way it was written before. I cannot appreciate anything I do without some reader validation. I deleted plenty of stories that weren't getting readers. I don't need compliments, but I do need the presence of readers to feel good about it.
 

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The best validation comes from personal motivation. Readers can complain and leave like guests. But you, the author, the host, survive and continue writing your story. My question is, how do you appreciate your own work, regardless of whether others care about your fiction or not?


I've always wanted to have at least one book I could be proud of. This fiction is a dream I'm realising, whether anyone else cares or not (even my family doesn't know).
That is exactly it. Well-said, El.
I'm not writing for validation. I'm writing to breathe life into the stories that have been haunting my dreams since my early youth.
The written word is all I have to give them life, so it is what I use.
As for appreciating it, the same way that I appreciate my time as a GM for my gaming group.
Seeing the smiles on their faces.
If even one person finds some enjoyment out of reading my work, then it has been worth all the pain, the nightmares, and the torment that comes with putting a work of art out there for people.

Digging a little deeper, I know I've said it before, but I'll say it again. The goal isn't to live forever. It's to create something that does. For me, that is my stories.
 

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The discipline and persistance it takes to keep improving as an artist. Even if that improvement is slow AF because you have full time work and still need time for some degree of a social and recreational life.

Also, I came back after a long writing hiatus. Reading my stories like a stranger to myself and falling deeply into them the same way I have with other fictions gave me a sense of appreciation for my past self. It was like a voice screaming at me to share my work, then later to write again when I realized it wasn't impossible to have a few people willingly sit at the campfire with me as I spin a yarn or two.
 

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Are you satisfied with it? That's basically how I approach it. Does it work? Sometimes. Only worked for me when I wrote something new, like writing a descriptive, detailed fight scene. Stuff that was outside of your comfort. You learn to appreciate them little by little.
 

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Traditionally, the only way any artist can make their work appreciate in value is to die ... oh, not THAT kind of appreciate? Hmm...
 

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For me, I simply like the story I am telling.

I am not trying to create some grand master piece, I do not have any sort of goal-type criteria of what the story must be, or any other sort of 'meta' goal in writing. There is no hyperbolic "artistic vision" to follow or master.

I am simply writing a story that I would like to read. I have main characters that I like, and whom I would not mind meeting IRL. They are generally doing things that I would be fine with a friend doing, i.e. they have morals/ethics that are reasonably similar to my own, though certainly not the same as mine, especially given their different personalities. The characters have goals they are pursuing, and generally trying to live a happy life.

But no world is perfect, and sometimes they have to deal with stuff they don't want to deal with. It makes things more interesting.

That said, sure, there are sometimes sections or chapters that do not flow easily and that I have to re-write later to be satisfied with, but that is a technical issue with the writing itself. The story stays the same.

I like reading stories like this, so I wrote a story in the style of the stories that I like to read. Which pretty much summarizes my advice: Read a lot, figure out which stories you enjoy reading the most, write a story like those stories.

Don't try to be 'different' just to be different. Do things differently simply because they match the world you want to build and the story you want to tell, and if there is no singular thing that happens to stand out as 'different', that's fine too. There are a million ways to tell any sort of story concept, and your writing is unique to you

Stories that go out of their way to be different just to distinguish themselves tend to be annoying, because it is clear what the author is doing and in the process they are sacrificing good writing on the altar of 'different'.
 

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I think I'll keep writing and editing my first novel till I die lol. I just love it sm that I don't want to publish it just yet. Even if I do, I'll keep editing it over and over again. I dream of publishing it on amazon but I guess it will never happen because I'll never be satisfied with my work.
 

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I've searched far and wide and haven't seen what I deeply craved—psychopathic protagonists.
So I just created one, how can I not appreciate it?
Even if the world disdain it, the arrogance and desire that prompted me into writing it will never die.
 
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As for me, I’m going to stick with this story and write it until the very end.
Even if the audience is very small, I won’t have any regrets because I’ve spent 9 years revising and adding to this script. I will keep pushing myself to improve my novel writing skills.
I think I’m genuinely happy with it, even though it has just recently become a novel and is only on Chapter 3 -_-)
 

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I love writing Supernatural stuff the most, but I don't wanna be put inside a box. So, I read and research other genres to see if I can create something magical or mediocre. But I'm still happy with my writing because it's mine.
 

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The best validation comes from personal motivation. Readers can complain and leave like guests. But you, the author, the host, survive and continue writing your story. My question is, how do you appreciate your own work, regardless of whether others care about your fiction or not?


I've always wanted to have at least one book I could be proud of. This fiction is a dream I'm realising, whether anyone else cares or not (even my family doesn't know).
I was amazed when parts of certain novels make me tear up. I don;t cry easy, and still ithappens. Mind you, I know whats coming, I wrote it! SO I figure it should have that big emotional imp[act on the first time reader. Bringing out out as strong an emotion like that, I felt as if I arrived somehow. Whatever else I have to fix, I know I have that part down. Making a reader cry or sniffle, that make me think its elevated into the realm of art. I feel as if I'm not just going through motions now.
 

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With a nice chianti and a side of fava beans, of course.
I was amazed when parts of certain novels make me tear up. I don;t cry easy, and still ithappens. Mind you, I know whats coming, I wrote it! SO I figure it should have that big emotional imp[act on the first time reader. Bringing out out as strong an emotion like that, I felt as if I arrived somehow. Whatever else I have to fix, I know I have that part down. Making a reader cry or sniffle, that make me think its elevated into the realm of art. I feel as if I'm not just going through motions now.
Oh, I've had moments that didn't actually hit me when I wrote them, but get me on the verge of tears when I re-read or even think about them.
Kelly's dad passing in Strange Awakening (Liked that character so much I felt guilty over what was happening to him but...it was important).
Audrey's (temporary) Death in Between Earth and Pyrroth - unless I start parodying the lyrics (Lying beside you, in a pool of blood, look what your thugs did to me. Bleeding out slowly. I'm in great pain, but here you are at my side... so now I'm holding you in broken arms. Sure hurts like hell, but you feel so swell... broken arms...) I tear up whenever I hear Open Arms and recall that scene.
 
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