Have you had satisfactory romantic relationships in life?

Have you had satisfactory romantic relationships in life?

  • I'm currently in one.

    Votes: 17 35.4%
  • Lots, but they didn't last.

    Votes: 2 4.2%
  • Some, but they're unfortunately over.

    Votes: 3 6.3%
  • Never.

    Votes: 14 29.2%
  • I was never interest in such things.

    Votes: 7 14.6%
  • Not satisfactory enough, so I've given up.

    Votes: 3 6.3%
  • Other

    Votes: 2 4.2%

  • Total voters
    48

ShrimpShady

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I've been in a relationship before, but sometimes I do wonder if I've ever genuinely loved another person

 

ArcadiaBlade

I'm a Lazy Writer, So What?
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Just Imagine I'm some kind of a dense main character whose quite good at making girls fall in love with me but prefer to be brothers with them but I'm actually in love with my cousin who I found out later on and decide being in a relationship is tiring and prefer a single life.

Without the later half of the story, its basically like a long manga title.

I had a childhood friend, a tsundere x tsundere ship, transfer students, older women and oh, did I mention little girls and how all of them are beautiful girls? But I didn't find these girls beautiful at all and treated them like normal because I have face and description blindness?
 
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I've been in a few relationships, and I'm in one now. I'm not the most romantic person, so it's always a surprise that people want to be with me.
 

Carrigan2121

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I'm engaged to my only girlfriend and getting married in a few months. We are both very happy and in love. Neither of us ever considered dating anyone beforehand because we thought it was stupid and rarely ever found anyone who we could ever consider spending our whole lives with.
if this isnt the most heartwarming thing I have ever heard on this site bro
 

HisDivineShadow

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Or maybe it doesn’t bother you to be around someone for too long. It’s an interesting and timeless question. How do you recognize love? My characters don’t really bring up topics like that, even though they do have romantic interests. But is it already love, or just infatuation?
 

RepresentingCaution

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Polyamorous. Procreated. See Husband every day. Text boyfriend occasionally. Too exhausted to see boyfriend in-person. Haven't started any new relationships since pandemic started.
 

Rhaps

Evil to the very Core
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The sad thing about me is I am very self centered, I didn't have any family or relationship trauma, I just don't feel a lot of empathy for other people. I could still sympathize with a shitty situation but I wouldn't care about anything after and just respond with something along the line of "That's rough, buddy". Much less feel the need to be in a relationship.
 

LuoirM

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Good question..............

I lost a few good relationships because of my own stupidity. None of which really bloomed, so I'll say Never.

But lol

Imagine satisfactory and fulfilling relationship in the big 2025
Bro is delulu
 

l8rose

Perpetually Positively Pondering
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Currently married (going on 15 years). I've had girlfriends, boyfriends and both at the same time with my second longest relationship being about a year.

Not saying our relationship is perfect but at the end of the day, I can't picture myself growing old(er) with anyone else.
 

nyandeyanen

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For 22 years as of last month, a bit longer if you count prior to marriage. I'm fairly certain I'm grey aro/ace or demi, as I'd never thought about a relationship previously. We were just friends for a few years. She decided to take it further, and here we are.
 
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