it's stopped bothering me so much, because i know my story will have some attention. that little bit will matter more to me than really big numbers because it'll be those few people who saw my stuff and went "this is my jam"
like, what even does it mean 1000 people love your story? it just means its popular, not a statement about its actually quality—and I am delusional enough to say my work is amazing and i love it. i mean, you kind of have to be at least a little delusional when it comes to writing, or just making anything, so long as you're able to register basic reality.
and while yes, we humans are attention-seeking freaks, i don't see why my stuff not being popular is any reason to stop. if anything, that'd be throwing the baby with the bathwater. nah, just let the baby grow, help nourish it, get better skills over time.
and the big reality is a lot of popularity is more about just being as annoying as you can shoving your story into people's faces, and get a ton of attention. also, it's worth noting a lot of the big stories have a ton of views on their pages, but most stories won't even convert 1/10 total viewers into readers, and then it's another 1/10 of that who become dedicated. keep in mind what i say next is my subjective opinion: but fourth wing and those kinds of books are exceedingly popular, but godawful: poorly written, more plot holes than my city has pot holes, but still beloved.
also, sites have specific niches. royalroad is also really huge as the litrpg place, wattpad is romance, ao3 is fanfic, etc. i just post my story wherever i think it'll get attention.
as my friends like to joke: "readers are the lowest form of life"... so don't get too fed up with how much they care about what you make. if you're in it solely for the attention, maybe you should be evaluating why you're writing and what you're writing, and if your heart is really in the best space for that.
for me, i'm just going to write my stupid werewolf smut and no one can stop me but the internet provider putting me in time out.