Have you ever fallen in love at first sight?

[melchi]

Have you ever felt in love at first sight, or more like, in the span of the first couple of minutes after you met someone? Perhaps you felt infatuated with someone at first sight? I'm curious as I've never fallen in love with anyone, much less falling for someone at first sight.

no

 

[AnonUnlimited]

That bulshit happens only in fakced up countries like USA

That’s why passport bros exist.

 

[DaisukeHanashi]

Well, I used to be infatuated by my crush who really acts sentimental towards me.

 

[georgelee5786]

No

 

[Bartun]

Falling in love at first sight? Yeah, I think is pretty common. I met this girl at work, and I fell madly in love stupidly fast. She was stunningly cute and sexy, and she drived me nuts with her "maybe I like you, maybe I don't" attitude. We did hang up several times and she never said no to dates. We even kissed a few times and she always knew how to turn me down without outright rejecting me. Of course I realized with time she just gaslighted the hell out of me and that what I felt wasn't actual love but mad infatuation, but at the time I couldn't really tell the difference.

My first love Manuela will never abandon me unless i lose my right hand in a car accident
Ps: she is always there for me if i feel the heat. Always ready, never getting a menstrual cramps or head aches

 

[Deleted member 54065]

Have you ever felt in love at first sight, or more like, in the span of the first couple of minutes after you met someone? Perhaps you felt infatuated with someone at first sight? I'm curious as I've never fallen in love with anyone, much less falling for someone at first sight.

Infatuated, yes.
In love? Nope.

I believe love is more than the feelings; it's the conscious decision to stay with your 'special someone' even if you already know his/her bad points.

 

[Shamiko]

Nope but I did develope feelings for someone after knowing them for a few months

 

[Notadate]

No

 

[Beeteetee]

Technically, most romantic relationships are love at first sight, it requires attraction to have some efforts to be done in the first place.

unless if you wanna wade into the muckmire of what exactly love is?

 

[Lloyd]

Every time I make eye contact with a woman. (Never, I don't leave my house)

 

[Deleted member 19066]

Have you ever felt in love at first sight, or more like, in the span of the first couple of minutes after you met someone? Perhaps you felt infatuated with someone at first sight? I'm curious as I've never fallen in love with anyone, much less falling for someone at first sight.

No, but I have experienced hate at first sight in university. Does that count?

Even though every rational brain cells in my body tells me I have absolutely no reason to hate this person. I do.

There's nothing wrong with their personality, action or history. I just can't stand him. If he walk in a room, I walk out, his voice grates my ears, and his presence make my skin crawl.

It's like, four or five minutes, when I first met him, then, God WTF, I hate this guy. What's wrong with me?

 

[RepresentingWrath]

No, but I have experienced hate at first sight in university. Does that count?

The first part of your answer counts.

 

[mitkopom]

No, but I have experienced hate at first sight in university. Does that count?

Even though every rational brain cells in my body tells me I have absolutely no reason to hate this person. I do.

There's nothing wrong with their personality, action or history. I just can't stand him. If he walk in a room, I walk out, his voice grates my ears, and his presence make my skin crawl.

It's like, four or five minutes, when I first met him, then, God WTF, I hate this guy. What's wrong with me?

May be you got an alergy or something?

 

[Deleted member 19066]

May be you got an alergy or something?

May be~

 

[T.K._Paradox]

The closest thing I have had is a crush I had in fifth grade. Wrote her a note and gave it to her in person, and she just stared at me and said nothing, preceded to walk away.

But to be completely honest I never had that whole 'tug on the heartstrings' type of love.

 

[gaylolis]

i was like that several times when i was young, but it never amount to anything.

it's mostly because the girl in school was cute, though i don't feel the need to pursue a relationship with them.

i was busy with my studies and hobbies to care about them that much.

 

[Viator]

Yes, and she felt the same. The ironic thing is we didn't really realize our feelings for what they were at first. Both of us were inexperienced, and had a lot of stuff going on at the time. We only both confirmed those feelings later with each other. We're still together several years down the line. I will say that I believe there are two aspects to love; the feeling and the action. Love at first sight the feeling is possible, but if you don't confirm those feelings with acts of love in your everyday life, any love can die given enough time. Hardship happens to everyone, and that's where everything gets tested.

I believe any two fools can feel and fall in love instantly, but both have to choose to live it out no matter the difficulty, and that is rare.

One thing that doesn't always get mentioned, respect is super important. I not only love my partner, but respect her as an individual. That kind of mutual respect is essential to a long lasting relationship. Love as a feeling, doesn't always guarantee the respect.

 

[CupcakeNinja]

No.

HE'S JUST LIKE ME FR

 

[DiscoDream]

Yes, girl I met back in HS hit every tickmark in my head for physical attraction. Started talking to her, and her personality was tolerable, so we dated for a few months.

 

[StrongArm]

She can humiliate you too, call you a creep and ruin your reputation. Could also accuse you of harassment.

A lot of people don’t realize how dangerous it could potentially be to ask someone out…

that sounds like you are justifying being too afraid to ask a girl out by saying that 'bad things will happen' if you do anon. A simple fact: You can't catch any fish without putting your pole in the water. If you want love, first you have to put yourself out there. No one is going to fall out of the sky and love you. Rejection builds character. As for the harrassment thing, its all about HOW you flirt/ask a girl out. All I can say is be socially aware enough to realize whats creepy or flirty.

Have you ever felt in love at first sight, or more like, in the span of the first couple of minutes after you met someone? Perhaps you felt infatuated with someone at first sight? I'm curious as I've never fallen in love with anyone, much less falling for someone at first sight.

There is no such thing as love at first sight. You can't truly love someone until you have a good understanding of who they are. This takes time.