Do you consider yourself to be a likable person?

[Daitengu]

I voted "unsure". Because cultural, taste, stage of life, looks, etc, create a variance large enough to where I've been propositioned by both genders, while also having had food thrown at me.

 

[Hsinat]

I voted "unsure". Because cultural, taste, stage of life, looks, etc, create a variance large enough to where I've been propositioned by both genders, while also having had food thrown at me.

Exactly! It really depends on the people around you.

FOR EXAMPLE -

In SK society, if you're kind but ugly, the company will reject you.

Why? Your face is ugly.

But if you're rude but pretty, then they will excuse all your wrong deeds and practically praise you!

Not only that but even rumours can hamper your likeness.

Therefore, if livelihood is linked to likeness, it will mean more than just feeding the poor.

It will be about who is the most likely to have this because of their number of likes or because of their kind heart?

People will go to the extremes just to survive.

That's absolutely horrifying.

Spoiler: my example

I used to be an outcast in primary for being too outspoken, but then in high school, everybody was chill with me. They didn't seem to care much, but they knew whatever I said wasn't to harm them and was from a genuine place.

 

[Deleted member 192215]

Do you consider yourself to be a likable person? If yes, what makes you likable?

None, I'm just honest (bad liar).

Do you try to be a likable person? If yes, how do you make yourself more likable?

Like your seeing right now. Trying to be funny as a Internet person.

Do you think it's important to be likable? If yes, why?

Hell no in one hundred years. I don't want to be Kanye West in social media.

 

[JayMark]

A three-part question:

1. Do you consider yourself to be a likable person? If yes, what makes you likable?
2. Do you try to be a likable person? If yes, how do you make yourself more likable?
3. Do you think it's important to be likable? If yes, why?

1. Stop asking me these questions! Stop!
2. Get out of my head! Leave me alone!
3. Go away! Arrrrgggghhh!

 

[RepresentingWrath]

1. No, fairly unlikable
2. With people I see for the first time, yes. I stay quite and occasionally chime in with a mild, non-offensive joke. With people I know I simply try to not be a total dick. I try to reign my emotions in and think before I write. Usually I fail the second part.
3. It is important, especially in an environment where you are surrounded by people. If you work from home or you are a neet, you obviously don't need it. If you study for example, it's better to have more teachers like you than less. They will be more lenient with you, so you can focus on studying subjects that professors who don't like you teach. You can't be universally liked, but you can be universally hated. So it's better to be partially liked.

 

[Daydreamers]

A three-part question:

1. Do you consider yourself to be a likable person? If yes, what makes you likable?
2. Do you try to be a likable person? If yes, how do you make yourself more likable?
3. Do you think it's important to be likable? If yes, why?

1) I had good relationships overall, so I'd dare to assume yes. Idk why, but i think being nice does the trick
2) No, some might think so, but usually, trying to help or being nice isn't about trying to be likable; it’s just being yourself.
3) Yes, life has its ups and downs, and being likable will surely bring you friends you can count on.

 

[owotrucked]

A three-part question:

1. Do you consider yourself to be a likable person? If yes, what makes you likable?
2. Do you try to be a likable person? If yes, how do you make yourself more likable?
3. Do you think it's important to be likable? If yes, why?

1. Someone will always like you for not betraying them, acknowledging their views, sharing similar experiences and taste. If you meant universally likeable, then I am not.

2. If you chase a goal too hard, you will end up farther away. But it is healthy to try to be liked by your family or communities a bit. It encourages people to spend more effort to understand each others and avoid extreme polarization like in internet bubbles. It's not healthy if you have to compromise your identity for the sake of being liked tho

3. It's not a necessity to me, thanks to the convenience of our current society. Besides, do you need to be liked by disrespectful clowns or entitled brats?
However technology made likeability and popularity an asset that can be exploited.

It's not in my ability to make use of that, but for some people, being likeable is their edge in life.

 

[Deleted member 41774]

A three-part question:

1. Do you consider yourself to be a likable person? If yes, what makes you likable?
2. Do you try to be a likable person? If yes, how do you make yourself more likable?
3. Do you think it's important to be likable? If yes, why?

1.) No. First being I have a resting b*tch face. Second is because people tend to assume that I'm either a weirdo or a scammer. Third, about 90% of the time, people who see me for the first time laugh at my sleepy eyes.
2.) No. I can't please everyone, but I try to be at least nice. The world, however, keeps testing me.
3.) Unless you want to be an edgelord or a sadboi forever, then yes.

 

[l8rose]

A three-part question:

1. Do you consider yourself to be a likable person? If yes, what makes you likable?
2. Do you try to be a likable person? If yes, how do you make yourself more likable?
3. Do you think it's important to be likable? If yes, why?

1. Yes. People find me very approachable and easy to talk to. I also apparently exude that aura of "why yes, random stranger I would be delighted to hear your life story".
2. No, I don't. In fact I usually stress over thinking I did something wrong or socially awkward.
3. No, I don't. More important to be yourself.

 

[Arkus86]

1. Eh. Some people like me, some don't (fuck them too).
2. To an extent. If I have to interact with someone, I generally try to be at least polite... but I don't go out of my way to make people like me.
3. Obviously yes, and the short answer is connections. The more people like you, there more they are likely to support you in some way, and the less likely they are to act against you.

 

[BearlyAlive]

I don't care ? Say F*ck it ?

But being the care bear I am, I'd guess I'm at least neutral.

 

[beast_regards]

I respect your opinion. You could challenge my beliefs by sending the detailed written complaint here:

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[RoyalTime]

Do you perhaps like me

 

[CarburetorThompson]

Everyone always tell me that I'm very likeable and pleasant to be around. It's probably due to my humility

 

[RedMuffin]

Everyone always tell me that I'm very likeable and pleasant to be around. It's probably due to my humility

 

[gaylolis]

it all depends on whether i vibe with the community or not. whether online or real life.

 

[Sola-sama]

It's unfortunate that I am likeable to some.
Don't worry, am working on it.
I will make you not like me.

 

[Deleted member 84247]

It's unfortunate that I am likeable to some.
Don't worry, am working on it.
I will make you not like me.

It's Enpossinble. Your Enpire credit score is too damn high.

 

[Azamukul]

1. Nope
2. No, not anymore, waaaayyy too much trouble for little gain. Better to be neutral.
3. Yes, We are social creatures by nature, not many of us are built for solitude. Plus it'll help out in the long run to have scape- friends.

 

[Shiriru_B]

A three-part question:

1. Do you consider yourself to be a likable person? If yes, what makes you likable?
2. Do you try to be a likable person? If yes, how do you make yourself more likable?
3. Do you think it's important to be likable? If yes, why?

1. Unsure, although superficially I'll just go with yes and say it's because of my glasses!

2. I do try. I think just being respectful, optimistic and having good communication skills should be enough to have a majority of people like you from what I've observed and gotten.

3.Hmmmm I thinks it's important, mainly because society fosters more growth into likable people, also relationships are more likely to develop in this way, watch Naruto his talk no jutsu becomes op in the latter half of the story.