Age Gap Question

[Erysion]

Person A and person B are childhood friends. Person A dies, gets reincarnated, dies again, then gets reincarnated again. Person B dies a decade after person A dies and gets reincarnated.

When person B marries person A, there is a ten years gap between their physical age and mental age (the two still remember their past lives)

Will this be a problem?

 

[Lloyd]

No

 

[RepresentingWrath]

What?

 

[ThrillingHuman]

Person A and person B are childhood friends. Person A dies, gets reincarnated, dies again, then gets reincarnated again. Person B dies a decade after person A dies and gets reincarnated.

When person B marries person A, there is a ten years gap between their physical age and mental age (the two still remember their past lives)

Will this be a problem?

As I have heard in some youtube video, what is wrong with a 60yr old groping a 6yr old ass?

 

[WinterTimeCrime]

Fiction is fictitious.

Unless you're worried about critics, then just write whatever story you want. I've read tons of other messed-up novels, and a reincarnated age divide is the least of the internet's problems, I assure you.

 

[Domoviye]

If they're both over 20, most people won't have a problem. Especially if the younger person is a man.
If the younger one is 18-19, more people will find it iffy, but acceptable. Again if the younger one is male, most will see it as OK.
If the younger one is 17 and under, or worse, under 12, you've got a problem and need to tread VERY carefully.

 

[DarkeReises]

Pretty sure there would be a lot more than a 10 year gap with Person A having reincarnated twice. Also both would have a gap between their mental and physical age because they reincarnated... The gap between Person A and Person B and their situation would make age pretty much irrelevant since they are, I assume, relatively young in mindset(but matured, so equivalent to a person in their 20s) and have known each other long anyways. I don't see how this could affect their relationship, with them having gone through similarly wonky experiences with Person A just gettin a double dose, and morally/societally they really can't say shit when they were childhood friends and probably close to lovers in their first life and met again in their respective third and second life. Kinda a confusing question to answer with the exact info provided tho, pretty vague.

 

[Theirl]

Person A and person B are childhood friends. Person A dies, gets reincarnated, dies again, then gets reincarnated again. Person B dies a decade after person A dies and gets reincarnated.

When person B marries person A, there is a ten years gap between their physical age and mental age (the two still remember their past lives)

Will this be a problem?

why would this be a problem?

 

[Snowyflakes]

I don't see a problem. Especially if neither one of them are under 18 years old.

 

[LilRora]

As long as neither of them is underage, there should be no problems. A ten-years gap is seen in real life quite often, and while it's not exactly encouraged, no normal person would have a problem with that. Just adding reincarnation to that equation doesn't make it a problem.

It might be if there was a large difference in age in their previous lives, but most people won't have any issue if thier behavior and thoughts match their age after reincarnation.

Also, yeah, there are far weirder things on the internet.

 

[Twin]

So confused...?

 

[Yairy]

Someone will make it a problem lol. Don't you worry.

 

[AnonUnlimited]

10 years? Those are rookie numbers... pump it up!

 

[LAJistics]

I'm more intrigued about why they keep dying and reincarnation so much.

 

[ThanksALot]

As long as you don't make a 27yr pair with a 17yr old, it's alright? According to the rules.
Obviously, don't go younger than that lol.

 

[Ilikewaterkusa]

Person A and person B are childhood friends. Person A dies, gets reincarnated, dies again, then gets reincarnated again. Person B dies a decade after person A dies and gets reincarnated.

When person B marries person A, there is a ten years gap between their physical age and mental age (the two still remember their past lives)

Will this be a problem?

Ask Yockey or something. I don’t deal with fictious metaphysics

 

[Mandark]

As long as they are two adults the age gap shouldn’t matter.

irl it gets weird to see an 18-19yr old with a 40yr old because you have to consider if the younger person was ‘groomed’ (because most 18-19yr olds would have nothing in common with a 40yr old).

After about 25 though it’s generally not weird unless the age gap is like 40yrs or something.

 

[TLCsDestiny]

...you are completely forgetting the concept of why two people get together in the first place...If they like/love each other, being reincarnated and born again and an age gap doesn't matter. Those things are just obstacles, that's all!

 

[FernGilly]

...you are completely forgetting the concept of why two people get together in the first place...If they like/love each other, being reincarnated and born again and an age gap doesn't matter. Those things are just obstacles, that's all!

Age is not something that people should treat as an 'obstacle', because the word implies it can or should be overcome. Age is a hard barrier. If one partner is a child, one is an adult, and there's not more than a 2 year difference (16yr dating 18yr is fine, 17yr dating 19yr is fine, 20yr dating 16yr is NOT OKAY) then certain age groups should not mix. If you argue otherwise you're sick and one of the reasons I was sexually harassed/abused as a teen by adults in my life. Don't have underage teens date non teens. That's final. If you have a sex scene between an 18yr and 28yr, that's uncomfortable but kosher. 27yr and a 17yr? No. Hell no.

 

[DiscoDream]

Person A and person B are childhood friends. Person A dies, gets reincarnated, dies again, then gets reincarnated again. Person B dies a decade after person A dies and gets reincarnated.

When person B marries person A, there is a ten years gap between their physical age and mental age (the two still remember their past lives)

Will this be a problem?

It's the internet, everything is a problem. Write the story you want to write, and ignore the moral busybodies.
Personally though, I don't see it as a problem. You've only described their age difference, not the dynamics between them. As they're both reincarnated, it's not like they're newborns, unable to understand even basic relationship goals. It's just new skin and some hormones.
-For reference my grandfather married my grandmother, who is twenty years younger than him. My uncle, his wife, sixteen years younger than him. Sister looks like she's going to break family tradition, and marry someone younger than herself. Age gap is a normal thing. It's only Puritans who get upset over it