I also avoid all kind of social media @.@)
Sleepy is on Insta so she gets such messages a lot...
I play chess online so I get those texts on the game chat...
Mnh, it is cheap fan service, for some the fact woman exists is enough fan service. And since it's a bit cringe to say "I am just a normal girl," they go for long stretches to establish that fact. It is imperative to these authors that you know these characters are woman O.O)
There was this manga I really liked, so much so once I caught up I really couldn't wait and looked for the Light Novel it's based on since I wanted to read ahead.
And wow, I have no idea how the manga artist managed to extract any plot from that mess because the light novel is just full of...
Mnh, it is a common meme that male authors love to establish a character is a woman by regularly mentioning how she has breasts.
And I was reading this book right now, The Girl on the Train, where the author also seems to make it awkward by regularly mentioning how the MC is taking a shower...