Depends really. I dislike lying, but I obfuscate my identity so it'd be impossible to really know who I am, I could be 40, I could be 14, no one would really know, everything on the internet is a Legend, a persona. I cant stand folks who share their lives
Schools are factories for jobs that no longer exist. Boys are not designed to sit quietly as someone yammers away, they need motion. It's in our genetics.