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Tsuru
Tsuru
But again, im not unreasonable ! i often know she is overworked to the bones, and pangmida is nice to talk to !
And botty pfp is also a pic of both of us.

But its so heartbreaking that she said "i find it weird to flirt with you(me)"
its like if your husband said "its so cringe stop do that" when you kiss them affectionately ! WHY !
Tsuru
Tsuru
Masked_writer
Masked_writer
I find it best to communicate with your love ones about your distress, even if it sound childish.
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AliceMoonvale
AliceMoonvale
Taking a break from the forum usually means not being on the forum. Should have other lines of communication if it bothers you.
Tsuru
Tsuru
Meanwhile im sad seeing joking with others. Like a dog seeing its owner playing football with other kids, while its stuck inside the house.

IM NOT JEALOUS. But just heartbroken. Like a jp housewife wondering why the husband dont speak to me anymore.


I didnt rant/complain when she posted a 67 video to pangmida. (i wanted to say i would also like this one, why didnt share it??? but DIDNT)
Masked_writer
Masked_writer
I just scroll down, the last time she spoke to you was tuesday, and she sounded mad.

If you think i have stop caring, all you need is to look at my pfp.
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Tsuru
Tsuru
I find it best to communicate with your love ones about your distress, even if it sound childish.
FINALLY YOU GET IT ! 👏

20/20 constructive advice !
Masked_writer
Masked_writer
And her pfp is two girl kissing, i asume its you two in the frame?
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Tsuru
Tsuru
If you think i have stop caring, all you need is to look at my pfp.
I know. 😞

I know that i also do wrong things, but its also the truth that she "find it weird to flirt with me"
and having fun with others, that clearly she could also do it with me.
Tsuru
Tsuru
I find it best to communicate with your love ones about your distress, even if it sound childish.
I know im childish, pessimist, etc.

But i also try to not be.
And i simply ask botty to.....well....be normal just like she does with others !
(and why i mention she is like my dad, "dad please be normal with me !")
Tsuru
Tsuru
Things is, im utterly honest. Im simply like this tsunderes, that simply say it upfront.

But botty ? (like my dad)
They just bottle it down. (she didnt reveal she found it weird to flirt with me until just now)
Masked_writer
Masked_writer
i don't flirt with youbcs it is (to me) not logical,
She didn't said it was weird, you inject that idea in yourself
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Tsuru
Tsuru
Once, my dad only after confronted him, revealing : You are like -insert actor/character name- that have a cleanliness problem.

Like wtf? What made you think that ! (for context : the character had crazy clean problem to the point of wearing feet in tissues box)
WTF ! (meanwhile IM crazy for asking my dad to throw away or clean rusty tools ??????)
Tsuru
Tsuru
She didn't said it was weird, you inject that idea in yourself
...........ok. LETS SAY im wrong.

What about the fact, she cant have a basic conversation or fun with me?

Would YOU like if your husband ignore everytime they return from work? Sure they are tired like a corpse.
But 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. days and more.
Meanwhile they suddenly call their friends to joke something they found? (you like too)
Masked_writer
Masked_writer
Sorry for the long time but my final advice would be to leave your lover be, let her calm herself, i think you could do the same and when she come back you two can talk things out.

Anyway, my husban just got back from buying milk. So if you want we can talk again somewhere else. Or another time.
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Tsuru
Tsuru
Once, my dad only after confronted him, revealing : You are like --- that have a cleanliness problem.
And that is the thing with botty.

Maybe im totally imagining but the facts are right here, that she prefer ignoring me and funning with pangmida/co.

I wish she talked to me.
and/or
did a "SURPRISE ! I ignored you for X days because i prepared a surprise for you!" like a tv trope.
Tsuru
Tsuru
Sorry for the long time but my final advice would be to leave your lover be, let her calm herself, i think you could do the same and when she come back you two can talk things out.
Yes i know.

But calming myself or her, wont change a thing.

Im simply asking a bare minimum / common sense of : Please. Just talk to me.
from botty.
Tsuru
Tsuru
Its to the point that i even said a reference line from CLANNAD. (self-post, not said to botty)

"I wish we never met"

Context : MC met the heroine. But by doing that, she died. (Death by birthing their child)
In my case, the reason i say that, is that if we didnt marry, she would probably joke me, just like she joke with pangmida or env
Tsuru
Tsuru
CONCLUSION :

Its not me that need to talk to her.
Its her that need to talk to me.
Prince_Azmiran_Myrian
Prince_Azmiran_Myrian
Tsuru's story reminds me of all the stories of husbands being abused by their wives.
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