What is it like to feel jealous?

[D4isuke]

Personally, I feel jealous towards my friend who succeed on having meet new and many friends, some of them got their lucky girlfriend, some of them got their trophies from their hardwork and acknowledgement, some of them have a good family, some of them have better social interaction, some of them have a better start.

While me, as a NEET-minded yet optimistic (to something), ambivert, tried-hard, boring person who started to be good, but ends up in bad way. Like constant bad way. I truly hate myself that I merely binge watch good anime. I did try to chat some of my friends, but it ended up like ghosting — worth forgetful to my existence.

Right now, I feel nothing... just nothing

 

[OneSixSeven]

Yandere

 

[gaylolis]

try asking someone named parsee

 

[Polarize4777]

Personally, I feel jealous towards my friend who succeed on having meet new and many friends, some of them got their lucky girlfriend, some of them got their trophies from their hardwork and acknowledgement, some of them have a good family, some of them have better social interaction, some of them have a better start.

While me, as a NEET-minded yet optimistic (to something), ambivert, tried-hard, boring person who started to be good, but ends up in bad way. Like constant bad way. I truly hate myself that I merely binge watch good anime. I did try to chat some of my friends, but it ended up like ghosting — worth forgetful to my existence.

Right now, I feel nothing... just nothing

Jealousy can be categorize in many forms, and all I can say is that I rarely feel jealous, but when I do, it is a disgusting feeling. It feels like a what if kind of train of thoughts, it never ends and it can bring out some horrible feelings from inside. Jealousy never leads to anything great, and even if you have what they have, it will never feel the same without earning it yourself. Comparing your situation to other and wanting what they have is no good either, if you want something, then you must strive to get it yourself. If you want more friends, then take little steps and set up goals that will help you achieve that dream. You also need to appreciate yourself and what you have, this just mean that you need to be content, but always strive for better things if possible. Go outside, learn how to interact in person and improve your social skills, find a hobby, try to improve yourself each day with a new goal and purpose. =)

 

[CupcakeNinja]

Personally, I feel jealous towards my friend who succeed on having meet new and many friends, some of them got their lucky girlfriend, some of them got their trophies from their hardwork and acknowledgement, some of them have a good family, some of them have better social interaction, some of them have a better start.

While me, as a NEET-minded yet optimistic (to something), ambivert, tried-hard, boring person who started to be good, but ends up in bad way. Like constant bad way. I truly hate myself that I merely binge watch good anime. I did try to chat some of my friends, but it ended up like ghosting — worth forgetful to my existence.

Right now, I feel nothing... just nothing

I suggest buying weed. Getting a job. Finding a hobby. Like smoking weed.

 

[Polarize4777]

I suggest buying weed. Getting a job. Finding a hobby. Like smoking weed.

Or you can do what this man suggest lol.

 

[D4isuke]

I suggest buying weed. Getting a job. Finding a hobby. Like smoking weed.

Good idea

Jealousy can be categorize in many forms, and all I can say is that I rarely feel jealous, but when I do, it is a disgusting feeling. It feels like a what if kind of train of thoughts, it never ends and it can bring out some horrible feelings from inside. Jealousy never leads to anything great, and even if you have what they have, it will never feel the same without earning it yourself. Comparing your situation to other and wanting what they have is no good either, if you want something, then you must strive to get it yourself. If you want more friends, then take little steps and set up goals that will help you achieve that dream. You also need to appreciate yourself and what you have, this just mean that you need to be content, but always strive for better things if possible. Go outside, learn how to interact in person and improve your social skills, find a hobby, try to improve yourself each day with a new goal and purpose. =)

I might trigger my schadenfreude.

 

[CupcakeNinja]

Or you can do what this man suggest lol.

People underestime the power of weed. See, i have it on good authority that weed has a chemical called "fuck it" and if you can just get that into your system aint nothing gonna get you down. You can be sitting in your home the bills needing to be paid with your electric bout to be shut off and you wont even care you'd just be "fuck it let them turn my electricity off i got an ass load of candles. I been waiting to light them bitches."

Orignal story by Katt Williams
Paraphrased by Cup

 

[AliceShiki]

try asking someone named parsee

I see you're a person of culture as well~

 

[weakwithwords]

Weed even unknowingly established the Grass Porridge Cult.

jealousy
The grass is greener on the other side.

u jelly?
grass jelly vs coffee jelly
Is there coffee made out of grass?

Parsee should try coffee once in a while.

coffee syrup vs cough syrup
Coffee syrup, when you dump so much sugar it becomes syrup.
Cough syrup, when you don't have weed.

Do you feed trolls with grass or goats?
green oats aren't goats

 

[wintersky]

In my eyes jealousy is often associated with
low self-esteem or maybe significant achievements maybe. If you think about jealousy in objective sense, Jealousy serves a purpose so it's not universally a bad thing and sometimes you may even encounter people who will 'test' you to see how you really feel about them by trying to provoke jealousy in you.

The first thing to note is that whatever you feel jealous about is something important to you and it's good to be aware of that but that's where the utility of jealousy often ends and the problems begin. It can be blind sometimes It can cause you to fixate on scenarios that will never come to pass, even under more favourable terms - not only making life difficult for people feeling the brunt of your jealousy but also stopping you from moving forward in your life on to better things and happier times. It takes an unhealthy toll on whoever it effects and it doesn't make anything better - it's merely a message to you about what you value, it doesn't make what you value more right or attainable and it can become a paralysing fixation which reduces your opportunity and quality of life while making the situation of others seem increasingly superior in a sense. My two cents for you. //

 

[Polarize4777]

In my eyes jealousy is often associated with
low self-esteem or maybe significant achievements maybe. If you think about jealousy in objective sense, Jealousy serves a purpose so it's not universally a bad thing and sometimes you may even encounter people who will 'test' you to see how you really feel about them by trying to provoke jealousy in you.

The first thing to note is that whatever you feel jealous about is something important to you and it's good to be aware of that but that's where the utility of jealousy often ends and the problems begin. It can be blind sometimes It can cause you to fixate on scenarios that will never come to pass, even under more favourable terms - not only making life difficult for people feeling the brunt of your jealousy but also stopping you from moving forward in your life on to better things and happier times. It takes an unhealthy toll on whoever it effects and it doesn't make anything better - it's merely a message to you about what you value, it doesn't make what you value more right or attainable and it can become a paralysing fixation which reduces your opportunity and quality of life while making the situation of others seem increasingly superior in a sense. My two cents for you. //

Great way of putting that into words that make sense lol.

 

[wintersky]

Great way of putting that into words that make sense lol.

 

[Mihou]

Jealousy is equals to insecurity.

 

[BenJepheneT]

ironic enough, the best way to defeat jealousy is to just grow outta that shit. put in the mindset that jealousy is based on a set factor in which the subject of envy has more of than you. remind yourself that said factor makes no bears no similar factors with the quality of your writing, and that it's petty if you think that way. the time to be jealous is time lost on writing. get that shit out of your head and keep moving forward. numbers will catch up soon, and you'll see your past envy turn to self-respect.

 

[DDTStudios]

I would describe being jealous as being angry. You are infuriated that someone else or something possess something you don't that you have worked either so hard to achieve or just desire because you want it. Your face contorts into all these different emotions which you try to keep to yourself but eventually, they all spill out like a waterfall. Bitting one's lip, snorting, stomping, pulling on hair, spitting, those are some different ways you could express jealousy.

 

[GDLiZy]

Jealous is a belief that something someone else has should be yours, while envy is wanting something someone else has.

I don't really feel jealous because I'm a self-deprecating person (or humble? Nope.) but I do feel envy, although I just shrug it off because it's not worth my time.

 

[D4isuke]

I would describe being jealous as being angry. You are infuriated that someone else or something possess something you don't that you have worked either so hard to achieve or just desire because you want it. Your face contorts into all these different emotions which you try to keep to yourself but eventually, they all spill out like a waterfall. Bitting one's lip, snorting, stomping, pulling on hair, spitting, those are some different ways you could express jealousy.

Um, yeah. I have those experiences. Like how most of my batchmates achieved numerous awards on the school, while I have nothing to achieve, so yeah, I have those faces drew me out, and it was hard to resist

Jealous is a belief that something someone else has should be yours, while envy is wanting something someone else has.

Does jealous and envy shares the same definition in a different subjective term?