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Nevafrost

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Well, I have been thinking about this for a while. What would it be like if SHF users met IRL?
I have had some fantasies myself. Like, we all meet in a cozy cafe or a family restaurant in a winter day. And, they all look like how we imagine them. For example, in my mind @Eldoria looks like a pretty saint with white hair, a soft spoken, kind lady. @pangmida comes in with her black cat in her arms who is cozily sleeping. She is very funny and friendly in my mind. @AnonUnlimited is just a dude in a black and brown jacket, a question mark for head. We all sit around a large round table and talk about our lives. Haha.
Have yall ever thought about that? If so, what have you imagined?
 

Eldoria

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Whoa there settle down, mister x)

I would imagine it would be like meeting someone you've been texting on a dating app in person. It's a 50/50 on the looks department and you hope they have good hygiene and a good personality :blob_evil_two:
Dating apps are the last option I would choose for making friends. Why?

Because friendships that are initially intended are usually insincere. They will project their best features onto their acquaintances, instead of showing themselves as they truly are. Therefore, such friendships can feel cosmetic.

In contrast, true friendships generally develop organically, through acceptance. These types of friendships are usually more genuine, intimate, and honest.

Nevertheless, I respect other people's choices about how they meet people, regardless of whether it happens organically or through dating apps.
 

Sylver

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Nevertheless, I respect other people's choices about how they meet people, regardless of whether it happens organically or through dating apps.
I was using it as an example, I don't make friends through dating apps cx
 

Nevafrost

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Only a few people would help set it up and plan it.
Most of the invited wouldn't show
Most of those that did wouldn't talk
Those who did talk would probably ask the same 10 questions over and over
I didn’t mean 'meeting literally' bcz that's very unlikely to happen as most of the people who interact with eo a lot are from different countries and different continents. So, meeting a lot of SHF users at once is really un-possible lmao.
 

Corty

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Me:

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Envylope

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I do imagine it, but @Corty would not be doing what he said. He would be robbing the trash can. I would be sitting in a corner, awkwardly sipping blehmonade, and watching like a bat on the wall. Also, in my heart of hearts, I would be searching for a way to leave kindly.
 

Nevafrost

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I do imagine it, but @Corty would not be doing what he said. He would be robbing the trash can. I would be sitting in a corner, awkwardly sipping blehmonade, and watching like a bat on the wall. Also, in my heart of hearts, I would be searching for a way to leave kindly.
I hope you would meet the people who wouldn’t make you wanna leave-nya :blob_melt:
 

Envylope

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I hope you would meet the people who wouldn’t make you wanna leave-nya :blob_melt:
I don't do well in groups. For example, I get invited to discord servers all the time. If a bunch of people are speaking, I don't say much. If it's only one person talking to me, it's more manageable. I would likely be talking to someone like @Stealthy_Enigma. We would both be hiding in our own respective corners in the ceiling, so I would find a way to talk to her and bond over our mutual abstention from the situation.
 

Nevafrost

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I don't do well in groups. For example, I get invited to discord servers all the time. If a bunch of people are speaking, I don't say much. If it's only one person talking to me, it's more manageable. I would likely be talking to someone like @Stealthy_Enigma. We would both be hiding in our own respective corners in the ceiling, so I would find a way to talk to her and bond over our mutual abstention from the situation.
I always thought extroverts adopt (not in the way @Prince_Azmiran_Myrian and @IWILLDEFYTHEHEAVENS are trying to adopt me tho) the introverts. But I see that introverts can also adopt each other-nyah~
 

Representing_Tromba

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Invite me next time so I can send gifts. Oh- I mean no, I hope there is no next time unless you remarry your wife!
Btw, did @AnonUnlimited have a question mark for head?
Maybe I will for an anniversary or something. He did not have the question mark over his head, no.
I feel like I missed a lot.
A little.
 

Corty

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I do imagine it, but @Corty would not be doing what he said. He would be robbing the trash can. I would be sitting in a corner, awkwardly sipping blehmonade, and watching like a bat on the wall. Also, in my heart of hearts, I would be searching for a way to leave kindly.
Don't look down on me, I can spike the drinks, steal trash and socks, while also bringing up 2012 memes that nobody gets anymore and make them cringe.

I can multitask, okay? :blob_teary:
 
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