Goal of romance

CheertheSecond

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I will be blunt.

Is the ultimate goal of every romantic pursuit the impregnation of the female individual?
 

BearlyAlive

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Depends on the person and their motivation, I guess. Some want to plague the world with their offspring, some want to get pegged by a dommy mommy tomboy goth girl, some want some eye-candy to feel validated, some just want a surrogate mother, some want a partner to share their life with...

I've heard there are even people who "fall in love" because living together is cheaper.
 

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The goal changes as the relationship changes. It also depends on the culture. In my culture, once you have a toddler, the goal becomes to continue liking each other enough so that you don't have to split resources needed to raise the child. You need to agree on parenting strategies so you don't undermine each other's efforts. You also need to agree on a new bed frame because your toddler monkeyed around so much on the old one that he ripped it apart, and you can't just not have a bed frame because you need to hoard extra bedding and seasonal stuff under the bed, unless your home is actually big enough to keep that stuff elsewhere. Ultimately, you also want to raise the child to be a very capable individual with high EQ and IQ so they can earn enough money to provide for you in your old age.
 

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This question simplifies as if relationships are only limited to biological relationships.
 

Worthy39

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No, that's merely one step along the path of the ultimate goal. The ultimate goal is to have the perfect child to rub in the face of that one really annoying couple down the street who keeps talking about how their baby is a genius when the most impressive thing said baby has done is blow a spit bubble. It's like breeding a horse until you get one that's healthy, looks good, and runs really fast. You just keep trying until the you get it just right.
 

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This question simplifies as if relationships are only limited to biological relationships.
You wouldn't know how much this goal dominates the meta. The fact that I had to ask this question should be a good enough indicator.
 

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I literally know people who got married because double bedrooms cost almost as much as single ones. The living cost is almost the same. Lol
 

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"Ladies, ladies I know all about makin babies!"

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You wouldn't know how much this goal dominates the meta. The fact that I had to ask this question should be a good enough indicator.
So, this question points to the practice of romance? Pragmatically, perhaps yes. That's often the case.

However, if you examine it from other aspects, such as psychological, philosophical, and sociological, the answer isn't that simple. Practice and theory often don't align.
 
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