theoretical breakup

[HelloHound]

alright so this was prompted by my mom telling me about a story she's been

Spoiler: reading

(she's been on a werewolf kick and while I don't want to disparage anyone's taste to their face, straight people ain't doing werewolves right)

Anyways the heroine met her "soulmate" while at university but uh-oh she started out with a boyfriend oh no. So she apparently planned to go to his university to dump him but he instead went up to hers and found her making out with her "soulmate" because she decided the dumping had to be face to face
If you were the boyfriend, would you have preferred to be dumped via phone or found out you were cheated on in person?

 

[Placeholder]

The former. The latter is better for plot reasons.

 

[Cipiteca396]

I feel like there's probably a middle ground here.

 

[Hans.Trondheim]

alright so this was prompted by my mom telling me about a story she's been

Spoiler: reading

(she's been on a werewolf kick and while I don't want to disparage anyone's taste to their face, straight people ain't doing werewolves right)

Anyways the heroine met her "soulmate" while at university but uh-oh she started out with a boyfriend oh no. So she apparently planned to go to his university to dump him but he instead went up to hers and found her making out with her "soulmate" because she decided the dumping had to be face to face
If you were the boyfriend, would you have preferred to be dumped via phone or found out you were cheated on in person?

I'm used to getting getting rejected personally, so I prefer to get rejected up close and personal. At least the closure is there, unlike via phone.

 

[Cannight]

Definitely the former, 'cause then no one would see me crying.

 

[Indicterra]

I don't care as long as it is an Amiable breakup in person or via phone, just say I don't think this will work out and state your problem, I would be understanding.

Making out with someone else infront of me to breakup while we were dating.......is kinda a dick move, no?

It's leave bad taste and bad blood for no reason at all

 

[georgelee5786]

the latter. It would give me the peace of she was a cheater and not worth my time

 

[TheEldritchGod]

As Soon As Possible.

 

[Theirl]

former if u end up seeing something like that even if u say u will be level headed its hard to be sure, if u really were deeply emotionaly involded i think that the second option would maybe make anyone commit a mistake

 

[ThrillingHuman]

Wait, people don't break up via messenger raven?

I feel like there's probably a middle ground here.

It's called a video call

 

[Zirrboy]

Wait, people don't break up via messenger raven?

I'm more of a sympathetic carving person.

 

[Dark_Phoenix_Zaetyk]

The latter so as to avoid any mischievous feelings left