I think I am actually an extrovert...

[Deleted member 68927]

Ever since I moved to the capital for my new job, I have become more outgoing. I smile more, talk more, go out more. Do people change over time, or was I never an introvert to begin with?

Did I not speak with people just because they did not pay me attention, or did I finally get out of my shell? Most of the people here are kinder, and some have even told me that learning German by myself and getting a job was amazing, when the people of my hometown just narrowed their eyes, and changed the subject.

At any rate, today I need to stay put at home because I have been taking too many walks lately, and that without a rest day. I am already feeling boxed in because of that.

PS: I would like to live until I get to 120 years of age! Minimum XD.

 

[NotaNuffian]

Ever since I moved to the capital for my new job, I have become more outgoing. I smile more, talk more, go out more. Do people change over time, or was I never an introvert to begin with?

Did I not speak with people just because they did not pay me attention, or did I finally get out of my shell? Most of the people here are kinder, and some have even told me that learning German by myself and getting a job was amazing, when the people of my hometown just narrowed their eyes, and changed the subject.

At any rate, today I need to stay put at home because I have been taking too many walks lately, and that without a rest day. I am already feeling boxed in because of that.

PS: I would like to live until I get to 120 years of age! Minimum XD.

It just means you met the right people and had fun with them.

It happens.

Hopefully more times in the future.

 

[Deleted member 68927]

It just means you met the right people and had fun with them.

It happens.

Hopefully more times in the future.

I hope so too.

 

[Indicterra]

Ever since I moved to the capital for my new job, I have become more outgoing. I smile more, talk more, go out more. Do people change over time, or was I never an introvert to begin with?

Did I not speak with people just because they did not pay me attention, or did I finally get out of my shell? Most of the people here are kinder, and some have even told me that learning German by myself and getting a job was amazing, when the people of my hometown just narrowed their eyes, and changed the subject.

At any rate, today I need to stay put at home because I have been taking too many walks lately, and that without a rest day. I am already feeling boxed in because of that.

PS: I would like to live until I get to 120 years of age! Minimum XD.

For me personally extroverts are not just people who can talk, having friends, go outside or stuff, no these things are basic for a human being since we as species are a societal creatures.

Extroverts are people who i consider leaders, or people with some important leadership qualities, confidence that doesn't come of as arrogance or shamelessness, A desirable sense of humour, ability to not only hold but initiate conversation with friends and strangers alike and most importantly ability to brush of setbacks not because it doesn't hurt but it is not enough to put them down etc etc...

I myself is not, I know few guy who claim themselves to be one but the first look of setbacks or trouble they wil deflate and sulk in the corner of room not able to face their failure.

I only know one dude in all my life who i consider extrovert, and he my guy is definitely a piece of art, got arrested by police, when his father went bail him out they say he was playing chess with some higher up of police and chilling with them .

Its what I heard, but because it is him I actually believe it because that is very much him

For you I say you found a better place to be open up more, find good people and become comfortable, I say enjoy it and don't overcomplicating with over thinking

 

[Deleted member 68927]

For me personally extroverts are not just people who can talk, having friends, go outside or stuff, no these things are basic for a human being since we as species are a societal creatures.

Extroverts are people who i consider leaders, or people with some important leadership qualities, confidence that doesn't come of as arrogance or shamelessness, A desirable sense of that is humour, ability to not only hold but initiate conversation with friends and strangers alike and most importantly ability to brush of setbacks not because it doesn't hurt but it is not enough to put them down etc etc...

I myself is not, I know few guy who claim themselves to be one but the first look of setbacks or trouble they wil deflate and sulk in the corner of room not able to face their failure.

I only know one dude in all my life who i consider extrovert, and he my guy is definitely a piece of art, got arrested by police, when his father went bail him out they say he was playing chess with some higher up of police and chilling with them .

Its what I heard, but because it is him I actually believe it

Wow, now that is something XD. That is what I call charisma.