Dude...
I hate to tell you this, but you guys started digging your own grave when you started picking sides. Did you? I dunno. I never heard of you, BUT WHAT DID YOU DO TO STOP THE REST OF YOUR INDUSTRY?
I work with the mentally and physically disabled for NYS. The STATE started abusing the clients. I took a stand. ALONE. It cost me FOUR YEARS OF HELL, I destroyed my career, but I did the right thing. Did I have any effect? For a few. Just a few. Not many, but you know something? I SLEEP JUST FINE AT NIGHT.
If you came up to me and said to my face, "Bob, your career is to wipe people's asses. You might do a lot of stuff, but in the end, the most important thing you do is clean up SHIT. ACTUAL. SHIT. You will NEVER go anywhere. You destroyed your future working for the state. You will never be promoted. You will be stuck on night shift, FOREVER, wiping ASSES of people who cannot wipe their own ass and you got about 14 years to go until retirement.
I'd look you in the eye and say, "Yup."
YOU PICKED A CAREER WHERE YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO BE NEUTRAL.
We were supposed to TRUST YOU.
And one by one, your Industry committed suicide. I'm sorry. You might be one of the good ones. You might be one of the guys who stood up and said, "WE ARE GOING THE WRONG WAY." and you paid a price for it. If so, power to you, brother.
But it doesn't change the fact your reputation is in the toilet.
Just like me standing up for what was right doesn't change the fact I wipe asses for a living and that's what I'll have to do for the next 14 years.
I'm HAPPY, BTW. I look in the mirror and go, "I stood up for those who couldn't and I did it the RIGHT WAY. I didn't cheat. I paid a price, but I made my choice and I sleep just fine."
I hope you can.
But the problem is, if you want me to, I will start showing you link after link of being lied to by reporters. Staged events. Fact-checking the fact checkers to find out they are lying. That's your industry. Not you. Your JOB. You work in a place where reputation means everything, and for some reason, I don't know why, your entire industry decided that you would sell your reputation for... whatever you got for it. Just, all at once, you all spent the past eight years jumping off a cliff.
Sorry, man.
I work at a place where the clients are treated like cattle. I work for a place where
Willowbrook isn't dead, they are just waiting for the right climate to flourish. Every once in a while, someone like me has to stand up and go, "HEY! WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TRYING TO PULL???" And then those people in charge try to get rid of you. Because it is easier to get rid of the one complaining then to fix the problem. You have to be BETTER. You have to know all the tricks, know all the rules, and never make a SINGLE MISTAKE or they will BURY you.
I had to allow a client to BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF ME and NOT DEFEND MYSELF because they PURPOSELY put me in a situation where I would be attacked and if I DID fight back, I would be fired.
BOY were they surprised when I took that beating with a smile!
They are NOWHERE NEAR AS CRAZY AS I AM.
Sure, had to go to the chiropractor for a year, but they never figured I'd play their game and win by walking into fire.
I have a bad reputation because of it.
I work at a job where I get actively mocked and harassed
I don't care.
I have SAVED LIVES and stood up for those who cannot speak.
The opinion of others means nothing. Mock me. Laugh at me.
I don't care.
History has shown me that I made the right choice.
I stand PROUD of the choices I have made to the point I don't need to brag about them.
I am explaining them to you, in hopes that it will put your own life into perspective.
I suppose that's the difference between you and me. Your industry requires you to have people's attention. Mine doesn't.
But I promise you this, you will not change my mind with words, just actions, and My opinion of your industry is BAD.
Will history show that your industry made the right choice? Was the sacrifice of the long term for short-term gain worth it?
And they have done just that.
Let's not pretend otherwise. Just like my industry does the same thing. I don't act surprised when people make fun of me being an ass-wiper. I heard every shit-related, smell-related joke known to man and have forgotten it a half dozen times over.
Don't act surprised that your industry has a bad rep.
You picked your job. I picked my job.
I have learned to live with my shit.
I suggest you learn to live with people talking shit.