Life is hard

Hemu

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Life is hard, it always is. It's not a life if there wasn't a hard part in it.
I was looking for a day job, but I don't even meet the requirement to be a cleaning service or waiter. I'm not that healthy so I can't be in the food industry as a waiter. Cleaning service and Janitor job vacancies needs women in their early 20s. Being a driver needs extensive knowledge of streets and places which I don't possess. And I'm undergraduated and dumb, so I couldn't teach. Doing physical labors is also a no go because I'm physically weak due to being ill a lot in my youth, and I'm probably weaker than a thin mother who could lift her 3 years old baby easily.
Now, I am confused what kind of job should I get? I don't have laptop or pc so I could't do anything related with it. I'm not a repairman either. And is too poor to even pay for next month internet bill. My short term is probably keep looking for jobs that just have a walking interview such as tending a store or being a delivery man for mineral water or something. But even then, if there are such vacancies nearby. I can only sigh really.
A sore loser really is someone who still remember past glory, huh. I was once a bright student despite missing a lot of school due to being sick, but now I'm just a nobody who can't even get a job.
But of course, what am I talking about, my hardships were nothing compared to you people and yet here I am being doom and gloom
 

Owl

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That's wrong.
We can't understand the pain of other people fully. We are confined to our own heads, so it's natural that compared to the vast pain that exists in the world, we still prioritize our own and that of our most precious people. The hardships you go through will always be one of the worst, because it is your own. There's absolutely nothing unnatural about that and I don't think it's something to feel bad about. That is how humans work.
I don't know where you live and finding a job is different in each country, so it's hard to give actual advice.
Still, I wish you good luck in finding something. Don't give up! It's alright to feel bad for a while, but remember to stand up again!
 

Hemu

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That's wrong.
We can't understand the pain of other people fully. We are confined to our own heads, so it's natural that compared to the vast pain that exists in the world, we still prioritize our own and that of our most precious people. The hardships you go through will always be one of the worst, because it is your own. There's absolutely nothing unnatural about that and I don't think it's something to feel bad about. That is how humans work.
I don't know where you live and finding a job is different in each country, so it's hard to give actual advice.
Still, I wish you good luck in finding something. Don't give up! It's alright to feel bad for a while, but remember to stand up again!
I live in Indonesia. And thanks for the comforting words, much appreciated!
 

Daitengu

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Exercise. It's the only way to get stronger.

Is there anything like a temp agency who finds jobs for temporary workers?

Is there anything like a government based job agency? I know some countries have them, but not all.
 

Hemu

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Exercise. It's the only way to get stronger.

Is there anything like a temp agency who finds jobs for temporary workers?

Is there anything like a government based job agency? I know some countries have them, but not all.
There were, but all of them are taken. I kinda want to apply for a part time in a drinking water refill delivery to gain some muscle because the place always need a new guy each month but my parent didn't give me the blessing. I'm currently applying for an english tutor and asking for a small store whether they have any vacancy. My choices are limited because i'm unhealthy. I'm allergic to dusts, smokes, and smelly stuffs like perfumes which were too strong, inhaling them could make me sick the next day, alas society is full of smoker who don't know which place they should be smoking in this country of mine
 

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Sounds like
I'm allergic to dusts, smokes, and smelly stuffs like perfumes which were too strong, inhaling them could make me sick the next day, alas society is full of smoker who don't know which place they should be smoking in this country of mine
Sounds like asthma. Have you been tested for it? An inhaler would expand what you can do if it is.

As for exercise, there are things you can do at home. Push ups, sit ups, punches, kicks, jumping jacks, and squats for example.

Aside from English tutor, since you have the internet, you can learn what ya need for an A+ cert online and test out cheaply for PC repair. Dunno if they're still around, but there were a few survey sites that can net a mailed check.
 

Hemu

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Sounds like

Sounds like asthma. Have you been tested for it? An inhaler would expand what you can do if it is.

As for exercise, there are things you can do at home. Push ups, sit ups, punches, kicks, jumping jacks, and squats for example.

Aside from English tutor, since you have the internet, you can learn what ya need for an A+ cert online and test out cheaply for PC repair. Dunno if they're still around, but there were a few survey sites that can net a mailed check.
Okay, I guess I seriously need to work my body up unless the health barrier won't lift up. Thanks!
 
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