Have you fallen in (romantic) love before?

[Ai-chan]

So, I’m not sure if I’m aromantic or something, but I haven’t fallen in love or had a real crush on anyone yet.

For those who have, what is it like? Did your love work out?
For those who haven’t, do you want to fall in love? What do you imagine it to be like?

Just a curious bubble hoping to understand the mating traditions of humans.

Yes, it works out. Ai-chan's girlfriend of 5-6 years became Ai-chan's sister-wife when Ai-chan married a dude. Ai-chan gave him the condition that if we were to get married, he had to take Ai-chan's girlfriend as his second wife. It confused the heck out of his parents since he introduced Ai-chan's girlfriend as his girlfriend and they asked why he accepted the arranged marriage if he already had a girlfriend.

Yes, it's a polygamy. It's legal here. While it's not exactly common, it's common enough that nobody bat an eyelid.

Anyway, a romance is equal parts attraction, desire, responsibility and compatibility. If any of these are deficient in any significant amount or are missing, it will not work. You're probably confused by the 'opposites attract' phrase now. It could also be a form of compatibility. After all, just because you disagree, it doesn't mean you don't fit together. In some cases, you're so opposite that your differing traits complement each other, which makes you compatible.

 

[someguysomeone]

Yes, it works out. Ai-chan's girlfriend of 5-6 years became Ai-chan's sister-wife when Ai-chan married a dude. Ai-chan gave him the condition that if we were to get married, he had to take Ai-chan's girlfriend as his second wife. It confused the heck out of his parents since he introduced Ai-chan's girlfriend as his girlfriend and they asked why he accepted the arranged marriage if he already had a girlfriend.

Yes, it's a polygamy. It's legal here. While it's not exactly common, it's common enough that nobody bat an eyelid.

Anyway, a romance is equal parts attraction, desire, responsibility and compatibility. If any of these are deficient in any significant amount or are missing, it will not work. You're probably confused by the 'opposites attract' phrase now. It could also be a form of compatibility. After all, just because you disagree, it doesn't mean you don't fit together. In some cases, you're so opposite that your differing traits complement each other, which makes you compatible.

wow.
Where do you live

 

[Kitsura]

I missed my shot and nows she's(I'm a girl but she's bi) getting married to another guy. I try not to think about it...

 

[Ai-chan]

wow.
Where do you live

Ai-chan and family now live in Malaysia. Though Ai-chan met Waiwai, that's Ai-chan's sister-wife, back when Ai-chan was a fashion model based in Taipei, Taiwan. She's still a model now, but she has more ambassador jobs that she doesn't really need modelling jobs anymore. Ai-chan stopped being a fashion model after getting married.