but just because my friends don't take offense to it, it doesn't mean I'm not stepping on toes.
Eh.... Don't pay too much attention to that sort of people. Some people are just snobbish. These even actively mock other Chinese people who can't speak, read or write Mandarin well. On the flip side, they themselves can't speak, read or write other languages well nor are they able to accept other people's cultural norms and get pissy when people laugh at them or criticize them for being small-minded. They themselves cannot speak their own inherited dialect and can only speak Mandarin, causing their own true heritage vanish.
These sorts get into trouble too, once they reach higher education and try to get jobs. Same people who made fun of "bananas" go to them in tears to help them out because they can't keep up with the English used in classes or multinational communications. I even scragged one of my mother's church friends who tried to give my little brother a hard time for having more westernized values and not being able to speak Mandarin. I asked her, "Oh, so Adam and Eve are Chinese??? GOD CREATED THE BIBLE IN MANDARIN??? Last I checked Christianity came from the Middle East, so why can't you speak Arabic?? HMMM???" and she went as quiet as a chicken after that. Yeah, nobody fucks with my brothers in front of me.
Ironically, my parents told me I could speak and read and sing in Arabic when I was little, although I can't remember having ever done it. It was something I did when I was around 5 or 6... and I can also speak both my parents' dialects, which is probably better than what this preachy religious, racial supremacist and self-righteous lady could do.

She even embraced a religion that's not Chinese, and I'm Buddhist, so what right does she have to criticize other Chinese people simply for their own way of life?
It's hypocrisy at its best, and for every snobby person who's like that, there's one open-minded, non-hypocritical/judgemental person who enjoys that someone's trying to love their culture. It's the latter sort of people that I feel should be more important in our lives than the sour, unhappy ones.
Also, I personally feel that cultures and writing really transcends trivial things like race and region. It's 2021 - people have got a chance to easily learn and explore different things, so why not be given a chance embrace it and love it? Who on earth is so free to gate-keep? Or so selfish to do so?
As for Disney's Raya.... it's an SE Asian-
inspired film written by American diaspora for and
about American diaspora. I don't think the bunch of us living in Asia are really their target audience, LOL!

It's a bit like how that cartoon with Baymax isn't very Japanese culturally, but has influences from it, at least visually. Hiro acts and thinks like an American kid.
Still entertaining though!

Yeah, I'm easily swayed around.... guys, when do you think Disney will make a handsome Wuxia hero? Seriously lacking heroes as handsome as I am... I can't relate....