Which side do you tend to value more?
Depending on what kind of culture you grew up in, you may have been told that being emotional is bad (or weak). Emotions can lead people to do stupid things.
On the other hand, if we were only rational, then all of us would be robots.
Is your writing more emotional or rational?
Do you tend to prefer more emotional character or rational characters?
Is it possible to be both extremely emotional and extremely rational?
my writing is definitely more emotional. My characters are all rather expressive. Like, colorful, you know? They got a lot of...personality.
But that aside, as a whole? Im more rational. I value reason over emotion.
Lemme explain. See, anyone here can tell easily that I'm a colorful dude myself. i say shit in a certain way that is heavily "emotional" or maybe even "raw" or perhaps could be taken as "crude"
But the way i say things doesn't mean that the content of what I'm saying isn't reasonable in itself. And i, myself, am a very reasonable and open minded person. I mean Ace once said he usually agrees with everything i say, but not HOW i say it. Which is fair.
It goes beyond me being a reasonable guy in terms of what i say, though. It extents to how i treat people. That, too, is also very "reasonable"
For example lets say me and you get into a very heated argument. We just cant agree. Anyway the argument goes on and on and we start being really toxic to each other. Calling each other names, being really mean, diverging from the topic.
Now, the conversation eventually ends. We both hate each other now, don't we? Nope. Imma see you again in some other comment section for some other story and act as if the previous argument never even happened, because i ain't gonna hold it against you that your opinion was different from mine. If i disagree with what you say next time we meet, then I'll speak up about it. But I'm not going to hate on you for a conversation we had over some completely different topic.
Thats just how i am. Thats reasonable, isn't it? That i don't bring in negativity from a past conversation with you, that i don't treat you badly for however awful that discussion went. Thats fair, right?
But other people arent like that, usually. They'll hold a grudge. And I've had it happen where some guy i previously argued with found me in some other comment section and just started talking shit to me. So it does happen. But personally i don't pull that kinda shit. I keep things separate. That's what i mean when i say im "reasonable."
Other people arent so forgiving. And im always kinds disappointed by that. But its not like i hold it against them either, because i realize im not like most people in this regard. I wont hold you to my standard. Im human too, its not like i don't understand why you'd hold a grudge. Its normal.
I'm the abnormal one not to. I know that. But that said, im also a stoner so i just take a few puffs of some Blueberry Daydream and im chill as fuck for the next hour. So, heh. That may also be why i don't hold grudges. Im too baked to!