Colostrum

When someone sends you an article about an unfamiliar concept, do you actually read the article?

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RepresentingCaution

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You know that feeling where you already sent someone an article about how colostrum works, and then you have to explain it all over again because they probably didn't read the article?

Do you read articles about unfamiliar concepts when someone sends one to you?

How do you feel when you send someone an article, and then you find out they didn't read it?

I didn't send you an article, but did you already know about colostrum, or did you get curious and look up colostrum on your own?
 

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WIC emphasized on the importance of breastfeeding over formula use, but I don't remember them talking about colostrum. They just wanted me to be aware that formula wasn't going to be the best choice and that breastmilk was the golden ticket for healthy growth. The facility had wanted to post our names up on the wall for having foregone formula (like it was an achievement). I had two kinds of pumps (a plastic electric one with a lot of parts and wooden pedal one that I still own) and we'd mark a date on the baggy and freeze the milk for later (our baby wasn't hungry all the time, but the "golden" factory never ceased their production).
 

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I read the first two paragraphs and stopped.

Then I ask myself, 'why the fuck am I reading about breast milk?'
 
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You know that feeling where you already sent someone an article about how colostrum works, and then you have to explain it all over again because they probably didn't read the article?
If it something I find fascinating I don't particularly mind, I like spinning a yarn. For example, once I did some local history research I found out a local "mad scientist" in the late 70s tried to developed a Mind-frying Death Ray, and then tried to submit to the Ministry of Defence. No one believed him, then he got mugged, he claimed that the people that attacked him were foreign spies and secret agents.

When I was doing the research I had read testimony and recordings... his name was... Victor Miller or something starting with M.... So I never really told people to look at the old newspaper clipping, I just told the story. Because I just liked telling it... "Did you know!? there was a guy in the 70s that live here-" that sorta thing...

if it is mundane like how to flush a toilet after using it, and the person just doesn't get it no matter how many times I explain it... I might get a bit annoyed...

Do you read articles about unfamiliar concepts when someone sends one to you?
Sure, but that does not often happen, coz I am the one that sends people unfamiliar concepts, in my circle of friends...

How do you feel when you send someone an article, and then you find out they didn't read it?
Depends what the thing is, most of the time I am aware that 70% of things I am interested in people just don't care.

Things that are genuinely important, I would tell people directly and explain it in face to face. Personally, I send someone something or link and articles, I am already so detached from the subject, I am not too invested in whether the other part knows the info or not.


I didn't send you an article, but did you already know about colostrum, or did you get curious and look up colostrum on your own?
This was the point...
You know that feeling where you already sent someone an article about how colostrum-
I stopped reading your post and when and googles colostrum.... and went "Ah~ I remembered this..." I just knew it without the technical term. Then I came back
 

RepresentingCaution

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WIC emphasized on the importance of breastfeeding over formula use, but I don't remember them talking about colostrum. They just wanted me to be aware that formula wasn't going to be the best choice and that breastmilk was the golden ticket for healthy growth. The facility had wanted to post our names up on the wall for having foregone formula (like it was an achievement). I had two kinds of pumps (a plastic electric one with a lot of parts and wooden pedal one that I still own) and we'd mark a date on the baggy and freeze the milk for later (our baby wasn't hungry all the time, but the "golden" factory never ceased their production).
Indeed! I'm doing WIC too, though I haven't been to a facility in person because of the pandemic. They're letting people send in their documents digitally and stuff. Unfortunately, we can't use WIC to get groceries online yet, though I heard they were making some moves in that direction. Our plan is for Husband to go out super late at night or super early in the morning when the stores aren't crowded.

I induced lactation through massage a few years ago for erotic/fetish reasons, but I only made a tablespoon of milk every four hours at my peak because I didn't have the hormones to support it. I read a bunch of stuff in the process, and now I'm basically a master at hand expression, though I still need to figure out how to breastfeed an actual baby. I also have a pump, but pumping isn't as efficient as hand expression, plus there are more little parts to clean after pumping.

As I explained to my lover, milking myself now and saving the colostrum for later wouldn't be the best thing for me since feeding baby from a bottle immediately would spoil baby's ability to suck straight from the nipple. My mom couldn't directly breastfeed me for this reason. I don't want to be constantly cleaning bottles and other supplies, so we're going to keep that colostrum inside my body until my baby sucks it out. We might go to pumping/expressing later and play around with spare milk then.

Anyway, I gave up lactating around the time I started my current story because it was too time-consuming, and once I got back into writing, I had to give up one hobby to make room for the other. When I was lactating, my periods never stopped, but my cycles got longer, so I didn't have periods as frequently, which was nice. I'm hoping that, with the hormones on my side this time, I can delay my next period for a year at least.
 
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I'm aware this discussion can make people feel uncomfortable and I will address it by placing a spoiler over all that it contains.

If it works out well for you, then you keep doing what you have been doing. Being comfortable with your lifestyle is great. I'm a clean freak. I would be cleaning bottles often because that also had reinforced my habit of hand sanitation practices that skyrocketed up to a bi-hourly norm a day (and washing all the way to the elbows if I could). The reason why I had done this was because I was scared to get my baby sick (although the detergent wasn't friendly towards my skin and my hands easily feel hot and dry now because of my overzealous washing with the wrong kind of soup). As for your experience with having periods while lactating, I was the complete opposite. Those didn't show up again until sometime after those milk factories shut down. Even then those pads only had spotting on them for awhile after (really dark brown spots too that had me worried for a month). I guess we all function differently from a lifestyle down to a biological degree, right?
 

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I'm aware this discussion can make people feel uncomfortable and I will address it by placing a spoiler over all that it contains.
All good :)

I get that things should generally be kept to a certain standard of cleanliness to avoid food poisoning and pathogens, but I'm going to drop a couple of articles here:


 
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ZynGrand

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Honestly when I'm sent something I put it on my to-do list and then forget about it.

And I know all about colostrum, that's where the gladiators fought!
 
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