Are you, you?

Rezcore

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If someone were to meet you in real life, would your personality be the same?

I ask, because I've recognized that I am what I say I am. I've never changed personalities for anyone.

As an example: I've told everyone who starts to get close to me, I'm not a good or nice person. They would disagree until they get to know me, and see my vindictive, irreverent self
 

Hans.Trondheim

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If someone were to meet you in real life, would your personality be the same?

I ask, because I've recognized that I am what I say I am. I've never changed personalities for anyone.

As an example: I've told everyone who starts to get close to me, I'm not a good or nice person. They would disagree until they get to know me, and see my vindictive, irreverent self
I never faked my personality. How I treat people here as to how I treat people irl, i including my students.
 

RainingFish

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I'm not sure how my personality seems here, or in real life, but it's probably different. I have some issues with social phobia which has led to me not socializing much with people in real life. I communicate with people online more where it's less of a problem. As for exactly what it’s like to communicate with me in real life I’m not too sure, but based on some people’s reaction to me something should seem off about it.
 

RivCA

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What personality? I have none.
Nonsense! Even a plank can have personality.

Insult humor aside, while I can understand the value behind such statements, or even cultivating a different persona within different groups, all I do is change names and let myself still be me. I think it's better if you simply be yourself; you have fewer lies to maintain that way.
 

Daydreamers

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The true answer is: no one is the same; even if you're not socially awkward, half of our personnalities here or any social media account aren't ours, but how the others percieve us to be; and a text isn't enough
 

Bartun

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Of course I am me.

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Navillus

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I personally live by the chaos lifestyle which just means I live whimsically and embrace randomness because it makes things more interesting… sometimes it can be as simple as changing walk style temporarily for exactly 12 minutes every 3rd day of every 3rd month but never on a 4th year or it can be walking backwards all day because why not or I may be extra blunt one day and saint level of kind the next… I am ever changing by my whims and chaotic way of life that I love so much… so honestly I don’t know if I act like me or something else entirely… I am the kind of person who needs constant entertainment or I’ll get bored and creatively kill myself for fun… whilst many fear the unknown I fear my desire to experience it and death has always been my greatest interest since it seems to be the greatest unknown of them all and that tickles my bones… so I genuinely don’t know if I am me or not as honestly don’t know what I am anymore the last time I knew who I was… was when I was 7 years old and that version of me disappeared one day without a trace when I turned 9 years old along with almost everything from memory to how I felt that of which emotions got twisted and distorted the problem is that I am not sure if that was a positive thing or not… I remember less about my past then my best friend who got brain cancer and had to get brain surgery… funnily enough they are the only one I actually remembered vividly… it seems I had a lot to say so I guess I should shut up and stop rambling now-nya.
 
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Daydreamers

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I personally live by the chaos lifestyle which just means I live whimsically and embrace randomness because it makes things more interesting… sometimes it can be as simple as changing walk style temporarily for exactly 12 minutes every 3rd day of every 3rd month but never on a 4th year or it can be walking backwards all day because why not or I may be extra blunt one day and saint level of kind the next… I am ever changing by my whims and chaotic way of life that I love so much… so honestly I don’t know if I act like me or something else entirely… I am the kind of person who needs constant entertainment or I’ll get bored and creatively kill myself for fun… whilst many fear the unknown I fear my desire to experience it and death has always been my greatest interest since it seems to be the greatest unknown of them all and that tickles my bones… so I genuinely don’t know if I am me or not as honestly don’t know what I am anymore the last time I knew who I was… was when I was 7 years old and that version of me disappeared one day without a trace when I turned 9 years old along with almost everything from memory to how I felt that of which emotions got twisted and distorted the problem is that I am not sure if that was a positive thing or not… I remember less about my past then my best friend who got brain cancer and had to get brain surgery… funnily enough they are the only one I actually remembered vividly-nya.
Idk whether I should laugh or be scared :blob_blank:
 

SternenklarenRitter

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My personal opinion is that human minds are too big to fit into a single personality. Any single person's personality will look dramatically different at various places, times, physical conditions, from different angles, in differently colored rooms, depending on the direction of the wind, depending on whether their last meal was full of sugar or protein, if they forgot their glasses, if the sun is shiny or the clouds are incontinent, if they are in a group with mostly men/women/children or alone, after you got a cancer diagnosis, after they got a cancer diagnosis, if an unexpected windfall is burning a hole in their pocket, when they are utterly pentatoped by some funky mushrooms from your fridge, when YOU are absolutely tesseracted by some spicy brownies from their fridge, or when they are absolutely busting for a wee.
 
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