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Your Grandpa seems to be a gentleman.

Mine argues with me all the time. And tbh I like arguing so it's a win.

yeah we had an argument and I was gonna ignore him out of pettiness till tomorrow until he invited me to shop and eat. As he should cause it was all his fault!

Man y'all grandpas are so wholesome while one of mine left this world with his last words being some casteist slurs.

One of mine also left when my dad was like 12-13.
And my grandpa from mother's side (mentioned earlier) ain't at all wholesome. We argume over serious things. Like he doesn’t love any of his kids other than the eldest son (who provides the most)

Wish i had a grandpa like that.

Had a grandpa that didnt talk the language (but chinese only) and very old and sick.

And told i was a bad child (like bruh, why do you learn this words in non-chinese but not the rest) that traumatized me and my mom for years to follow. (like a curse)

(which i guess is due that i wasnt a GIGA FILIAL SUBSERVIANT slave child, to the generation he lived)
(i was playing videogames near him, when he came to our house)

(and everyone in the family were like a slave that pampered him due to his health+age)

I don't know much about your family.
But calling everyone your grandpa's slave doesn't feel right. Everyone pampered him means he was loved by all (on the other hand, people just abandon their old parents. They don't even care to check of what they are doing or how they are doing)

In your family, your grandpa being cared might mean that he important to your family/respected by your family.
By your perspective, I feel he didn't have any way to convey how he felt about you....Maybe cause you didn't speak Chinese? idk
From my observations, grandparents love their grandkids more than their own kids in most of the cases.

But calling everyone your grandpa's slave doesn't feel right. Everyone pampered him means he was loved by all

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I know that its bad.

In fact I also respect this chad of a man that came to a foreign country, had 5+ children, had a successful store that allow lot of them to have successful job (one of my aunt having a pharmacy and lot of money)

But

But
And i also know that he was VERY VERY old and VERY sick (he always was in bed)
So i know its NORMAL he was pampered/helped. Like carried to bath.

But still doesnt change the fact he said that to me. And hurt me a lot+my mom.

And after all this years, i also (try?) do not care about it no longer. He is dead. So Rest in Peace.

And after seeing bunch of CNs
i also try to reason that he didnt try to insult me or basically tried his own manners to say i was "bad" for not helping the rest (they were trying to prepare bath for him while i stayed playing, its not like i could help anyway)
bc his gen was the kind that focus on being filial.

So yeah, sorry that you misunderstood that i hate him or something (though maybe a little? i am not even sure myself. The mystery of human heart)
(im also easy to misunderstand and i pick wrong words all the times or lost meaning in typing)

But to return to the topic, i envy you for a grandpa like that.
Though in return i guess lot of people would also envy mine, bc he was precursor of my mom that married my dad.

My grandma calls me Demon a literal DEMON for being an atheist.
My Mom hates him because of that.
He's the type of typical grandpa who believes in old systems...religious bias, caste system, racism, nationalist...and much more

PS :

Sorry for deviating your post about your grandpa into mine.

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My grandma calls me Demon a literal DEMON for being an atheist.

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URG.....this one truly hurts. (you)

I wish i could give you a hug right now.

But now he's the one who put all his property on my name entirely.
I asked why he said nothing. When my Dad asked, " He doesn't differentiate anyone." was what my grandpa said.

He didn't consider his own kids, other other grandkids. Directly me.