I say again and again that i won't be like them, like my father, like my mother. But the more I hate them, the more resemblances i find between me and them
I understand that feeling but you have to keep in mind that our cultures are shifting I'm sure you will be able to make your children pursue something they will be happy with in the future.
ah I get it! I also do not want to be a person like my father, he is a very short tempered man but everytime we fight or the more I get angry, the more I feel like I'm becoming like him.