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Not really cherry-picking. You said that you'll try to explain it kindly three times but if they still can't get it you'll verbally abuse them repeatedly. This is a problem in your teaching style and it's not enough to simply acknowledge it's a problem.

Either change or stop thinking yourself better than people who verbally abuse others.

I got autism, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, ptsd, generalized anxiety disorder, adhd, add, ocd, partial blindeness, just went deaf in my left ear last week, raynaud's disease, nerve damage that affects eating, walking, and sometimes breathing, yet I will still give you three chances to understand my polite, in-depth explanations that honestly take more time than I would like.

I am not obligated to help them, but I do so anyway out of what little kindness this cold, cruel and dark world has left me to work with. I am not a saint. I will never claim to be a saint, nor a good person. Even if I were to explain something to an exact replica of myself with slight knowledge gaps, I would still be like this if I had to explain it more than three times. Three strikes and you're out.

The fact that you can be polite for the thirst three means that you have the ability to control your negative emotions. The only reason you can't change is because you have a defeatist persona, blaming everything on your mental disorders and thinking that becaus e you have them it's entirely hopeless.

Change your mindet to one where you believe it's possible to become more patient, and if it doesn't work simply stop teaching these people instead of blowing up on them. You aren't obligated to teach them.

I think you misunderstood the previous post. I am not blowing up at them. Me blowing up at someone involves more violent methods, ie. The time I kicked the bully in the nuts for shoving me in my locker, and then he never bothered me again.

Isn't ragebaiting saying something provocative in order to get engagement/interaction?

Also, I don't have a defeatist persona. I do have hope that I can one day become something close to what is considered normal, but I have no ability in actuality to ever reach full normality, because taking a cocktail of thirty different meds in high dosages and going to therapy isn't considered normal in the slightest.

@Prince_Azmiran_Myrian everything I have seen and heard points to 'ragebaiting' just being about making someone with an over inflated ego feel good about themself while putting someone else down.

1. The post we've both been discussing is the one where you said you'll verbally abuse stupid adults because they should know what they're doing.

2. The only example you bring up is about not verbally abusing a kid, because they shouldn't be expected to know how to cook steak, meaning you will be verbally abusive to an adult for not understanding something you are trying to teach.

3. It is never so much as implied that these adults are doing anything morally wrong, just being stupid, and that irritates you.

4. You definitely have a defeatist persona. The fact that your response to me suggesting you be more patient is listing off all your mental disorders shows that.

5. Blow up as in emotionally blow up. You're bottling in your negative feelings and then releasing them is blowing up. Just because you can do something worse doesn't mean what you did was right.

I use "abusive and vulgar language", not I abuse them, there is a slight difference. Simply put, they signed up for it the moment they didn't pay attention to what I was saying for the third time. As I said, I am not obligated to help them. First, we treat them like they are our student who has done nothing wrong, and I am the instructor. Three strikes, we go to me being your dad but in the year 1612.

Whatever. I don't agree with your methods, but you're unlikely to change them.

The only thing I hope you pay mind to is your true stance on how bad verbal abuse is.

It's only arrogance when you either do not have the backing, or do not have the ability. Also, I am not going to explain anything more to you, because I don't owe you that, and you are severely testing my limited patience. I am not obligated to explain anything to you.

It's only arrogance when you either do not have the backing, or do not have the ability.

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Oh, I deleted that post like 5 minutes ago because I remembered you said you were autistic and likely wouldn't pick up on the subtle humor.