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It Would make a good cover for a book.

You know what I'm going to use this image for a customised notebook.

P.s:- I got the books made.

Listen I usually step out of forum dramas because I already have to deal with dramas at home. But it doesn't feel good watching that atrocious drama play between you and her.

Botty wants to have a relationship with you and we can see that because she has been defensive when masked brought up the topic of ending the relationship yet she also seems to avoid you because of her mental state and/or holds you at contempt.

Maybe she considers that you are too valued to loose and that the risk of interacting with you at a bad mental state isn't worth it when compared to others who have less of a value to her and can be risked loosing.

Either way nothing is going to happen here until you and botty have a proper conversation about your issues and you know that.

When botty comes back after her mental health break you need to give her an ultimatum about either having the talk or putting down the relationship.

If she values the relationship she will say atleast the bare minimum like she has been having some mental health issues and felt overwhelmed or having burnout. I would also recommend having an another mode of conversation other than the profile posts.

because of her mental state and/or holds you at contempt.

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.....Im speechless (like always by you doing that) at how you nailed the target.

Its that, that i subconsciously feel.
Bc if not, its SO FKING weird how they ignore me/dont know to flirt like old days, but somehow so happy with others.

And wont deny, she talk to me like a 5y/o that didnt grow up.

YES, i deserve it, i know.

But like 10days or more ago, she said "sigh can we talk later ? i need to take a shower" (trying to dodge my rant)
"I promise you to talk later. Ok?" (her talking like a parent to their child)

But ofc, promise broken. (and likely forgotten)

Maybe she considers that you are too valued to loose and that the risk of interacting with you at a bad mental state isn't worth it when compared to others who have less of a value to her and can be risked loosing.

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Again nailed on coffin.

I feel its close to the truth.

Edit : also why i dont want to lose her. I value her too much.

Either way nothing is going to happen here until you and botty have a proper conversation about your issues and you know that.

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That is the thing.

Its all on botty.
Not that its her fault, but its me wanting to talk, but botty is introvert. And dont seem to want to talk. (like my dad)
And like my dad, i need to pull out the words/thoughts out of her mouth.

-after her mental health break you need to give her an ultimatum about either having the talk or putting down the relationship.

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I also had this thought. But undeniably you totally phrased it better and more complete than my thought.
And also bc i dont have the guts to truly confront it and do this ultimatum.

Pessimist brain : what if it fail and the relation is cut?

It's unhealthy that only you are carrying most of the burden of the relationship here, trying to initiate everything and yada yada. You guys really need to talk or this will just happen again and again.

If she values the relationship she will say atleast the bare minimum like she has been having some mental health issues and felt overwhelmed or having burnout. I would also recommend having an another mode of conversation other than the profile posts.

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