Bc this particular sentence of yours, it gives vibes of "a 3rd party that dont care of anything and want to reprimand someone of doing something wrong AGAIN and lazy to check what happened"
Like the stereotype overworked teacher that is always high that hate his job and just want to go home and see 2kids fighting "urg not again".
(especially the "not following up afterwards" part)
Call me crazy, or overthinking or exagerating. But that is simply how often you just butt-in "what is happening", and ..........NOTHING. (or least if my memories doesnt fail me for this)
So yeah. Its annoying you do that. I felt that someone needed to say that to you (and stop doing it).
But i dont hate you.
You just did/do something one particular dislikeable thing. Like a bad habit of something wrong.
+ looks like coming just for popcorn drama watching if you don't give any input. Heck even a sad emote or anything would be fine. Or a thumbs react.
Also easy to misunderstand a laziness to "check"
And it feels wrong to ask me as im one of the participant; like a paparazzi : "For my interview, which of you can tell me the reason you are fighting/killing each other?" (and them hurting/bloody)