I'll tell you or her: Today's animation in those circles is dogshit. They are the cheapest, 5-second repeating animations from Fiverr you can find. Put the '90s or 2000s OAV next to it, and the fall of quality will be rage-inducing.
Check "daily life of highschool boys" there, you can find a nice representation of us girls. (boys are like samurais / girls like delinquents while eating)
Or
Check the survival show MENvsWOMEN. on youtube.
or the jp manga with "Streamer" guy. (all yanderes)
Or its bc animes are doing ecchi series ? (Redo:Healer is a serious LN but got full blown shown sex scenes, or there was like this boobs-pool fight series, a big wtf series)
oooooooooooooor it could be she isnt well versed into what is "anime" and "hentai" (thinking its same thing)