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Last time I heard, a student is telling me that his adviser is making bad rumors about me, alleging that I only give high grades because I'm trying to be liked by my students.

Offending, considering that I give high grades because I want to help, not discourage kids.

I want to, but I can't. They are people at my workplace.

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This is indeed a problem.

But unless, they are REALLY NEEDED/Teamwork or fear retaliating
Simply slowly but surely distance yourself. Even if you need to pull out BS excuses.

Also,
the big point is : the mentality
just think : they are ----
to feel less bad ab it
but its what they have against you to profit from you.

and the least I can do is not to have them laugh when they learn I died.

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Take asian science mentality.

After death. Nothing.
So there is no point to care of what happens after you die.

Bc "you wont be here to witness it"

is to minimize my time interacting with people.

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oops you said it yourself already (up there)

Now you just need to not forget it and do it well.

Ah, it's people from my work. Like, they demand something from me, knowing I can do it, yet they demand for free. Even when I am in vacation, they would call me, or tag me just to get my attention.

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Do like what a family member did.

Only care about "phone calls" = if its a message that means its not important
-----
at worse, say "i lost my phone" or "no battery"

I'm 35, but watching your family--who you believe in all your life to be fine--get destroyed is discouraging and depressing.

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It is

Which is why, picture the image of a balance. And weight "colleagues vs family" and/or "self suffering ton vs family"

Anyway. Drastic measures for drastic situations.

Try to do vacation with your family. Or for yourself.

Or simply take a day off.
You can stay at home.
EAT ICE CREAM or whatever you liked as a child/now.

And "relax/decompress".

Also "crying/balling out" is also a decompression method. (like the tragedy series does, "im fine now". Its edgy but TRUTH)

You.
HANS.
Need simply to vent.

That is all.

Go break a brick or something.
Go break a cheap cup.
Or go scream in mountain or in the windows (neighbor dont give a s to what you scream)
Or cry big time.

^AND i am giga serious.

Its cringe, or very simple "actions"
but that is how COMPLEX the human psychology is.
How annoying it is to cure it.
How crazy the mentality can be.

And often "simplicity" is best.
(also what is saying my current readnovel btw)

@TsuruI_am_a_bot aye, thanks for listening. Also, sorry for replying just now. I drove home from the grocery.

I posted this status because I heard a song from my childhood, back in the days I was still fine, and my biggest problem is how to pass my college subjects.

Last time I heard, a stude-----ge kids.

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AND THIS

is why
you "confront them"

Or you directly upfront go walk to them. And ask them about it. Public place or not.
Anyway, YOU. are. THE. Victim !

Look aliceshik/puppet/para/reina/etc
THEY ARE THE BULLIES, IM THE VICTIM
but SOMEHOW they act like one

Tis fine. I don't want confrontation because of my hypertension.

Remember THIS.
I beg of you seriously.
Remember this. And Possibly forever.

"You give me a foot of respect, i respect you 10 times. If you disrespect me, i will retaliate 100 times."

That is how you should live. From now and forever. If you want to have a better life.

Tis fine. I don't want confrontation because of my hypertension.

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Then simply tell it to your students or allow the rumor the enemy teacher is a D
or complain to staff team / superior.

Its better to done with fast, compared to brooding it forever.
Hypertension is a pain, feeling like dying, but think of it : "its just 1 day" compared to 10years, 20years, 30years, remembering/bearing it.

ALSO
(i hope it will help you decide)

"Give an inch to a villain, they will take a yard"

The more you will bear with this jackass, the more arrogant they will turn. Today is a rumor. Tomorrow, it will be 2. And next year, they will whisper or telling it openly to their students as a FACT.

Anyway, seeing you, be like that.
Reminds me of a loved one/family (teacher before, now retired)
and of my self (pre-unliving attempt)

You are stuck stubbornly on your ways, just like old depressed me.
hence why i wish to come and slap you awake, just like how dumb i was bfore (and slap past self)

+i hope it wont be a "unliving attempt" or "too late later" that will wake you up
+why i bother typing so much to you.

For info/hint/bonus/end.

This "person" is overly too kind. Saint maria kind. And also had douche colleagues. Now retired, but they are like a dead zombie without emotions. Or "numb"
As for me, i basically herited this kindness.